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Girl Trouble...

Sorry, I usually hate threads like this, but what the hell...

*and I'm also not gonna post Anon, that annoys me too*

Basically, I met this girl back in November and we went out a few times for a couple of drinks etc...she was really cool. We used to text each other a lotand although we weren't actually boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever...I thought it was going there...

Until, we went out on a really bad date. Basically, to cut a long one, she had been out the night before and was knackered..so hardly said two words and left after two soft drinks! ha very rock and roll...

Anyway, after that, I figured she wasn't as interested as I first thought, esp at the end of the night, when she said "I might see you around sometme" which I took to mean "I'm not really bothered if we do or we don't"

So I didn't text her for a bit,I thouht that if she was bothered, she would text me...well, needless to say she never did, and I haven't seen her since(well, once, but thats only cos we bumped into each other in a bar..)

here's the weird bit, on Friday night, my mate went to a party (unbeknown to me) and she was there. He was a bit drunk and told her how guted I was and how much I missed her- which of course were exaggerated! She then text me asking me to come out...but I ignored it. Since then,my mate has told me what happened, and told me that she actually does like me...

So what do I do?!!

Reply 1

TrentEnd
Sorry, I usually hate threads like this, but what the hell...

*and I'm also not gonna post Anon, that annoys me too*

Basically, I met this girl back in November and we went out a few times for a couple of drinks etc...she was really cool. We used to text each other a lotand although we weren't actually boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever...I thought it was going there...

Until, we went out on a really bad date. Basically, to cut a long one, she had been out the night before and was knackered..so hardly said two words and left after two soft drinks! ha very rock and roll...

Anyway, after that, I figured she wasn't as interested as I first thought, esp at the end of the night, when she said "I might see you around sometme" which I took to mean "I'm not really bothered if we do or we don't"

So I didn't text her for a bit,I thouht that if she was bothered, she would text me...well, needless to say she never did, and I haven't seen her since(well, once, but thats only cos we bumped into each other in a bar..)

here's the weird bit, on Friday night, my mate went to a party (unbeknown to me) and she was there. He was a bit drunk and told her how guted I was and how much I missed her- which of course were exaggerated! She then text me asking me to come out...but I ignored it. Since then,my mate has told me what happened, and told me that she actually does like me...

So what do I do?!!



depends on how much you want to get in her pants. Sounds like your mate has set it up pretty well for you. Ya might as well finish the job, it'd be rude not to, then see how it goes from there.

Reply 2

El Scotto

depends on how much you want to get in her pants.
Well,it goes without saying mate!

Seriously though, I've got nowt to lose (especially after my intefering mate!!)should I just go for it?!

Reply 3

TrentEnd
Well,it goes without saying mate!

Seriously though, I've got nowt to lose (especially after my intefering mate!!)should I just go for it?!



Yeah go for it, do her for the lads lol....

but seriously, you dont have anthing to lose, even though your mate was sticking his nose in, shes obviously still interested maybe she was as stubborn as you by not texting : )

Its unfinished business! you liked her before, you deserve something for putting up with her previous attitude!
:biggrin:

Reply 4

yea go for it...obviously! if you both like each other then why not?

Reply 5

Go for it :biggrin:

Reply 6

Go for it prehaps she didnt want to give to much away when she said see you around sometime and you took it the wrong way. Its often the case that people are afraid to make the next move i.e you wouldnt text her. Just lay it on the line tell her how you feel, go out together one night and ask her to be you girlfriend if thats what you want. Good luck

Reply 7

It seems to me like she was really embarassed about her own behaviour by the end of the night (of the date that went badly)

Perhaps she thought that you wouldn't be interested because of that date!

Go for it and if all goes well your mate deserves a pint or 10 :biggrin:

Reply 8

lauradelightful

Go for it and if all goes well your mate deserves a pint or 10 :biggrin:
hehe no chance!
seriously though, I think I'll text her later on...we'll see what happens!

Reply 9

Sent her a text an hour ago - no reply...boo

*to make matters worse, my ex is out on her date now...*

Reply 10

El Scotto
depends on how much you want to get in her pants.



:hmmm:

Reply 11

She never did text me back...cheers for the advice everyone, but I guess it's back to the drawing board for me...

hm...I wonder how my ex's date went....bastard!