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Guy problems...again! :)
Yep, I’m sorry, another problem like this –
I’ve liked this guy for about 6 months now, we’re at the same school and do a lot of extra curricular stuff together – we’re pretty good friends as well, even though he’s in the year above me. It’s been a constant battle in my head whether he likes me as well or not – there are really good signs that he does most of the time, but I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want to ruin our friendship if he doesn’t. But I don’t want advice about that – thing is, most of my friends know that I like him this much. I’m not the kind of person who goes around screaming out to everyone who I like at the moment, but over the course of the year, my closer friends have found out the extent of this colossal crush. It’s really embarrassing because whenever we talk my friends always nudge each other and me, and whisper and are just generally embarrassing. He’s quite a shy guy, and one of the reasons I thought maybe he hasn’t said anything to me yet (if he does like me, this is) is maybe he feels intimidated by my friends or something…or embarrassed maybe? I’m not sure – guys, how would you feel? Would you be put of if a girl’s friends were acting really giggly and whispery like this?
I’ve liked this guy for about 6 months now, we’re at the same school and do a lot of extra curricular stuff together – we’re pretty good friends as well, even though he’s in the year above me. It’s been a constant battle in my head whether he likes me as well or not – there are really good signs that he does most of the time, but I don’t want to say anything because I don’t want to ruin our friendship if he doesn’t. But I don’t want advice about that – thing is, most of my friends know that I like him this much. I’m not the kind of person who goes around screaming out to everyone who I like at the moment, but over the course of the year, my closer friends have found out the extent of this colossal crush. It’s really embarrassing because whenever we talk my friends always nudge each other and me, and whisper and are just generally embarrassing. He’s quite a shy guy, and one of the reasons I thought maybe he hasn’t said anything to me yet (if he does like me, this is) is maybe he feels intimidated by my friends or something…or embarrassed maybe? I’m not sure – guys, how would you feel? Would you be put of if a girl’s friends were acting really giggly and whispery like this?
Reply 2
Well, yeah the friends may put him off a bit by making him nervous.
Reply 3
Damn, so what should I do? He's still uber nice, and smiley and chatty when I see him, which makes me think he might like me...ugh I dunno what to do!
Reply 4
Just ask him out if you like him, I'm sure you could still be friends afterwards...
Reply 5
punkskamonkey
Just ask him out if you like him, I'm sure you could still be friends afterwards...
I really don't want to, I just know it would screw our friendship up, and I like him so, so much I would be so embarrassed.
I just really hope he doesn't feel uncomfortable because of my friends, they are so embarrassing, I really wish they hadn't found out.
Course this is all assuming he does actually like me...which he probably doesn't
From a guy:
The giggling & whispering can, at times, be complimenting but also quite blatant.
Chances are he already knows what's up but due to the 'shyness' which may be caused by lack of experience, he can't really express what he wishes to.
You could have a talk with him about the matter in private. If his friendship is sufficient and you don't want to risk it you may not want to pursue it but then you will never know what he truly thinks.
However, if he's a good friend the mutual feelings shouldn't change much after you have the 'chat'. Either you'll become more than friends or stay friends (with potentially awkward silences during otherwise comfortable conversations).
So... A bit to consider.
Damn... What made me go one like that.... (3:02 am...)
Good luck though
The giggling & whispering can, at times, be complimenting but also quite blatant.
Chances are he already knows what's up but due to the 'shyness' which may be caused by lack of experience, he can't really express what he wishes to.
You could have a talk with him about the matter in private. If his friendship is sufficient and you don't want to risk it you may not want to pursue it but then you will never know what he truly thinks.
However, if he's a good friend the mutual feelings shouldn't change much after you have the 'chat'. Either you'll become more than friends or stay friends (with potentially awkward silences during otherwise comfortable conversations).
So... A bit to consider.
Damn... What made me go one like that.... (3:02 am...)
Good luck though
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