This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- Teenage girls as horny as teenage guys?
- Need some help
- can't stop masturbating
- help your girl out again
- How many times per day u get horny?!
- I am too horny around my bf, help?
- Porn abuse
- Masterbation or actual sex
- Dry vagina when about to have sex....
- Why would girls watch Pornography ?
- I am harldy in the mood for sex anymore. Why?
- Erection Problems?
- can't stop thinking about sex when quitting porn
- Am I still a virgin?
- male problems - should I see a doctor?
- trying to quit porn
- Christian red flags
- What does being sexually attracted to someone actually mean?
- Difficult masturbating in the morning ?
- Horny all the time (Muslim) boy
am i just overly horny?
ok, I feel kind of embarrassed asking bout this, but here goes!
I have a great sex life with my boyfriend, we live in different houses (2nd year at the same uni) and we stay over at each others houses at least 4 times a week and have (great) sex most of those nights! the problem? i want more of it! but sometimes my boyfriend doesnt really seem as up for it as I do! its only happened twice that he's actually been too tired or something, but it feels like such a rejection! am I overreacting? its just that i feel wierd being the girl, and not being the more restrained one!!! does anyone else have this problem or am i just totally odd!!??
thanks!!
I have a great sex life with my boyfriend, we live in different houses (2nd year at the same uni) and we stay over at each others houses at least 4 times a week and have (great) sex most of those nights! the problem? i want more of it! but sometimes my boyfriend doesnt really seem as up for it as I do! its only happened twice that he's actually been too tired or something, but it feels like such a rejection! am I overreacting? its just that i feel wierd being the girl, and not being the more restrained one!!! does anyone else have this problem or am i just totally odd!!??
thanks!!
Scroll to see replies
I'm often too tired for sex, and believe me it doesn't mean I don't enjoy sex. Just hold your horses you randy bugger.
hahaha! well ok, tho its a blinking frustrating thing to do!!
There's no reason why girls should be the "restrained" ones. I don't think it's odd, but don't take it badly; I am not surprised he's tired if he's at Uni and working etc.
thumbellina_20
ok, I feel kind of embarrassed asking bout this, but here goes!
I have a great sex life with my boyfriend, we live in different houses (2nd year at the same uni) and we stay over at each others houses at least 4 times a week and have (great) sex most of those nights! the problem? i want more of it! but sometimes my boyfriend doesnt really seem as up for it as I do! its only happened twice that he's actually been too tired or something, but it feels like such a rejection! am I overreacting? its just that i feel wierd being the girl, and not being the more restrained one!!! does anyone else have this problem or am i just totally odd!!??
thanks!!
I have a great sex life with my boyfriend, we live in different houses (2nd year at the same uni) and we stay over at each others houses at least 4 times a week and have (great) sex most of those nights! the problem? i want more of it! but sometimes my boyfriend doesnt really seem as up for it as I do! its only happened twice that he's actually been too tired or something, but it feels like such a rejection! am I overreacting? its just that i feel wierd being the girl, and not being the more restrained one!!! does anyone else have this problem or am i just totally odd!!??
thanks!!
this happens with me and my bf all the time. I am always the horny one, and often he is too tired, i dont get that upset about it, tho it is a bit deflating when i have been thinking about it all day and then it doesn't happen.
suppose really it is more work for guys to have sex if they are on top of doing it in doggy style or whatever, i don't get upset. he is a busy guy and i put it down to him having a lower libido. it's not to do with him not being turned on by me or not liking me enough or me being bad in bed, as i know he really fancies me and i can tell he is happy with it after we've done it.
What does he do at uni? how long have you been together? it is true that after a while you have sex less often, tho i have to say sex 4 times a week is a lot more than me!
we used to have sex about 10 times a wek tho!
Jo
xxx
Don't worry, I had the same situation. I saw my bf almost every night and we had sex most of these nights but I wanted it all the time. I think I just do have a strangely high sex drive as in the summer we would do it practically everday and I still wanted more, now we have broken up I'm having to cope without it 
Just enjoy it when it happens, it feels more special if you do it less often
Just enjoy it when it happens, it feels more special if you do it less often
joeybee
this happens with me and my bf all the time. I am always the horny one, and often he is too tired, i dont get that upset about it, tho it is a bit deflating when i have been thinking about it all day and then it doesn't happen.
suppose really it is more work for guys to have sex if they are on top of doing it in doggy style or whatever, i don't get upset. he is a busy guy and i put it down to him having a lower libido. it's not to do with him not being turned on by me or not liking me enough or me being bad in bed, as i know he really fancies me and i can tell he is happy with it after we've done it.
What does he do at uni? how long have you been together? it is true that after a while you have sex less often, tho i have to say sex 4 times a week is a lot more than me!
we used to have sex about 10 times a wek tho!
Jo
xxx
suppose really it is more work for guys to have sex if they are on top of doing it in doggy style or whatever, i don't get upset. he is a busy guy and i put it down to him having a lower libido. it's not to do with him not being turned on by me or not liking me enough or me being bad in bed, as i know he really fancies me and i can tell he is happy with it after we've done it.
What does he do at uni? how long have you been together? it is true that after a while you have sex less often, tho i have to say sex 4 times a week is a lot more than me!
we used to have sex about 10 times a wek tho!
Jo
xxx
we've been together about 8 months, its a relief to hear its not unusual! and i guess it is quite hard work!! tho i do put a good share of the effort in! i do tend to wake up feeling quite...up for it, to put it a nice way, after a night of it too! so i suppose its only fair that he feels a bit tired!!!
Monkey_Maiden
Don't worry, I had the same situation. I saw my bf almost every night and we had sex most of these nights but I wanted it all the time. I think I just do have a strangely high sex drive as in the summer we would do it practically everday and I still wanted more, now we have broken up I'm having to cope without it
Just enjoy it when it happens, it feels more special if you do it less often
Just enjoy it when it happens, it feels more special if you do it less often
Eek! i dont like to think how id be without him!! ur right bout it being more special tho, it is better if its been a couple of nights since we've seen each other! but maybe thats just cos its been two lonely nights!
MattG
lol, If a guy had started this thread and complained about his girlfriend he would have been eaten alive!
Im not complaining bout him tho, it was more that i was worried i was being too demanding! but ur right!! a guy would have been accused of putting pressure on his gf!!!
He most probably is to tired when i finish work etc and my gf comes round or vice versa..im generally too tired to have sex, what you need to do is just leave him be and wait for him to jump on you. if u were sumthin sexy when u see him and he is to tired just show him what your wearing and things will probably change
SHad666
He most probably is to tired when i finish work etc and my gf comes round or vice versa..im generally too tired to have sex, what you need to do is just leave him be and wait for him to jump on you. if u were sumthin sexy when u see him and he is to tired just show him what your wearing and things will probably change
cheers, that definately couldnt hurt!!
Thanks for the replies everyone!
tis v reassuring!! 
thumbellina_20
ok, I feel kind of embarrassed asking bout this, but here goes!
I have a great sex life with my boyfriend, we live in different houses (2nd year at the same uni) and we stay over at each others houses at least 4 times a week and have (great) sex most of those nights! the problem? i want more of it! but sometimes my boyfriend doesnt really seem as up for it as I do! its only happened twice that he's actually been too tired or something, but it feels like such a rejection! am I overreacting? its just that i feel wierd being the girl, and not being the more restrained one!!! does anyone else have this problem or am i just totally odd!!??
thanks!!
I have a great sex life with my boyfriend, we live in different houses (2nd year at the same uni) and we stay over at each others houses at least 4 times a week and have (great) sex most of those nights! the problem? i want more of it! but sometimes my boyfriend doesnt really seem as up for it as I do! its only happened twice that he's actually been too tired or something, but it feels like such a rejection! am I overreacting? its just that i feel wierd being the girl, and not being the more restrained one!!! does anyone else have this problem or am i just totally odd!!??
thanks!!
Your not overeacting at all, you just clearly have more hunger
I had similar problem before, its frustrating i know but at the same time you gota respect your partners wishes.
In the end.. you've got to be sexually compatible with your partner, like it or not It's going to be a big part of any relatiionship; If its only on the odd occaision and you're generally 'satisfied' then no real biggy.
But a mismatch of sex drive can be terminal to any relationship.
Best of luck,
Si
But a mismatch of sex drive can be terminal to any relationship.
Best of luck,
Si
Related discussions
- Teenage girls as horny as teenage guys?
- Need some help
- can't stop masturbating
- help your girl out again
- How many times per day u get horny?!
- I am too horny around my bf, help?
- Porn abuse
- Masterbation or actual sex
- Dry vagina when about to have sex....
- Why would girls watch Pornography ?
- I am harldy in the mood for sex anymore. Why?
- Erection Problems?
- can't stop thinking about sex when quitting porn
- Am I still a virgin?
- male problems - should I see a doctor?
- trying to quit porn
- Christian red flags
- What does being sexually attracted to someone actually mean?
- Difficult masturbating in the morning ?
- Horny all the time (Muslim) boy
Latest
Trending
Last reply 5 days ago
Engineering vs. Medicine: Stuck Between Dreams and ExpectationsLast reply 1 week ago
heyyy , im new heree and im willing to have some friends xxxLast reply 2 weeks ago
Im 16 and never had a gf and it doesnt feel ok.
