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When To Ask Someone Out

Right well I was just wondering whether I should ask this girl out, I mean I like her quite alot and she likes me but I don't know if it's in the same way. So I'm basically asking do you reckon someone has to feel the same way about you to go out with you because I don't want to risk our friendship by asking her out.
Thanks

Reply 1

G4ry

How long have you known her and how friendly are you with her?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Well I'm really quite friendly with her and I've known her about 2 years although only started feeling this way about her recently.

Reply 3

G4ry

Sounds like you've made the friends list. But what's life without regrets?

Reply 4

ExitMusic

carpe diem

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

What's that mean I used to know but I've forgoten

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Oh yeah meant to say if it turns out that you all say I should go for it what kinda way face to face msn text what?

Reply 7

G4ry

It means "seize the day". Honestly...you've known her 2 years you say and you can't even speak to her face to face? There's your answer.

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

No I can speak to her face to face because I do I'm just saying if you think I should go for it HOW do you think I should go for it. In what way should I ask her and how.

Reply 9

Toscar

carpe diem - seize the day - go for it... what have you to loose but your self respect, confidence, the respect of your mates who'll laugh (they will, admit it) and you might scupper the friendship...but thats only worst case senario.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

That's the main thing I'm worried about screwing up our friendship I mean as the whole friends laughing thing just won't do it infront of them I mean why ask someone out infront of people like makgking and audience I mean WTF

Reply 11

G4ry

Anonymous

No I can speak to her face to face because I do I'm just saying if you think I should go for it HOW do you think I should go for it. In what way should I ask her and how.

I personally don't think you should go for it as it's been 2 years and you're friends and she probably thinks of you as nothing more. You're probably going to get the "we're just friends" line and then you'll try and put it aside and you might be ok with that, but it'll still bother her a bit.

You'll find the words will come to you. Just say you like her more than friends and just wondering if she felt the same way, something along those lines.