First Love?

How do u really know if u r in love. i have had crushes on lots of girls but have never dared to asked them because i am too scared ill make a fool of myself the only time i have been on a date wasnt really a 'date' i asked a girl out to dinner and we ddint even talk.

that is another problem with me i just cant talk to girls. the only time i talk to them is either when they talk to me (usually about school!!) or when i want smtn from them (again mainly school!!) does anyone else have similar problems ?? any advice please .....

Reply 1

Clarence

14

Your not in love if you have to ask yourself if you are..... if you catch my not so articulatory drift.

Reply 2

pumpkin7

13

you just know when you are in love.. you don't have to say it to know, and neither does the other person.. hehe. you just feel it.. :smile:

aww.

Reply 3

KarPapers

OP

if u do feel it then u still need to verify that they do love you rite ?

Reply 4

pumpkin7

13

i guess so.. never had to 'ask' personally.. the only person i have ever said it to said it to me first.. so i'm not sure.

Reply 5

Dude

14

pumpkin7

you just know when you are in love.. you don't have to say it to know, and neither does the other person.. hehe. you just feel it.. :smile:

aww.

Exacity, its the same thing when it goes from being just friends to a proper relationship. If you have to ask, then the answers most likely no.

It may sound kind of corney, but if you look into your heart, you will know.

Reply 6

Apricot Fairy

16

Yeah, you just know. My ex and I knew within a week of getting together, but then, we had been friends for years.

Reply 7

KarPapers

OP

but then what if ur interpretation is wrong and u just end up being the loser. who should make the first approach

Reply 8

El Scotto

15

KarPapers

How do u really know if u r in love. i have had crushes on lots of girls but have never dared to asked them because i am too scared ill make a fool of myself the only time i have been on a date wasnt really a 'date' i asked a girl out to dinner and we ddint even talk.

that is another problem with me i just cant talk to girls. the only time i talk to them is either when they talk to me (usually about school!!) or when i want smtn from them (again mainly school!!) does anyone else have similar problems ?? any advice please .....

one of my best friends has been in love everytime hes pulled a girl he wants to sleep with. not a pulling tactic i'd use, but it works for him.

Hes only slept with girls hes 'loved' lol

for working it out, imagine the girl dying. If you get kinda upset then you could be in love.