Do i... dont i??

Right help me please! Id been with my bf for bout 2 months, slept with him ( i lost my v) and i thought things were going well until on fri he broke up with me by text message because hes going in army soon. I rang him on sun for about two mins just to see whether we were definitely over and he said yeh i just need to sort my head out. I said ok well i might not see you ever again now so good luck with everything and he said you probably will but ok.
I feel so crap :frown:

and i just feel like i want him back so much. Ive thought to myself im going to give him about two weeks before i get in touch with him, but if he doesnt bother trying to speak to me first shall i just leave it? Or any other ideas like speaking to his mates etc please help me i dont know what to do i feel so crap! Should i just accept things are over, except things were going well and i said to him about three days before he finished with me, are you going off me and he said noo dont be silly! Obviously i was wrong! pleasee help any ideas would be good.xxx

Reply 1

Sexy Plexi

5

After 2 months he dumps you by text?! I would wager you're better off without him anyways sweetheart..xx

Reply 2

shinyhappy

14

Heya. Try just forget about him, if he's going off into the army, it would be really hard on you. He's probably just trying to stop you getting too hurt now, than drag it out for months, when he's away.
Best of luck anyway, my bf is going into the RAF, and so I sort of know how you feel. xxxxx

Reply 3

Lauren Hart

3

ye, sounds a bit bad hun, i mean, any guy who'd bed you then leave you like that isnt worth the time of day!

Reply 4

Steve Stifler

Anonymous

Right help me please! Id been with my bf for bout 2 months, slept with him ( i lost my v) and i thought things were going well until on fri he broke up with me by text message because hes going in army soon. I rang him on sun for about two mins just to see whether we were definitely over and he said yeh i just need to sort my head out. I said ok well i might not see you ever again now so good luck with everything and he said you probably will but ok.
I feel so crap :frown:

and i just feel like i want him back so much. Ive thought to myself im going to give him about two weeks before i get in touch with him, but if he doesnt bother trying to speak to me first shall i just leave it? Or any other ideas like speaking to his mates etc please help me i dont know what to do i feel so crap! Should i just accept things are over, except things were going well and i said to him about three days before he finished with me, are you going off me and he said noo dont be silly! Obviously i was wrong! pleasee help any ideas would be good.xxx

If you want him to be happy then leave it.

He'll only be shagging army nurses behind your back anyway.

Reply 5

Spiral Architect

1

hurryupandwait

If you want him to be happy then leave it.

He'll only be shagging army nurses behind your back anyway.

Either Army nurses of some hooker in Germany. Just make sure he wears a condom when he gives you a booty call while on leave.

Reply 6

Clairehayz

5

Yeah you're definitely better off without him, if he took your v and then lied to you and still thought it was ok to dump you by text, you are soooooo better off without him and as others as have said, he will only cheat anyway and probly with a hooker!

Reply 7

Schroedinger's Pandora

13

Babe i'm so sorry. What a d*ckweed. Unfortunately for us this world is full of morons who will take what they want from us with no regard for our feelings at all. He knew he was going in the RAF, yet he took your virginity from you for his own selfish gratitute knowing that it must devistate you when he leaves. If he dumped you by text message, its obviously some kind of joke to him, I think he must have known what he was going to do all along. Yet we fall for it. I realised that losing your virginity is never something magical that happens on a bed of roses with someone who would die for you, I lost mine in a similar way to you and its devistating. You just have to rise above it and decide that you're not going to give a crap, i mean, sex only gets better from here.. believe me! :hugs:

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