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Reply 1
ur a virgin if u hav oral u can only lose ur virginity wen u hav ful proper sex
Yep. By definition, you definitely are. :smile:
Oral intercourse as in a blow job? Then no, you are still a virgin. You only lose your virginity when you have vaginal intercourse.
Btw, why are you so worried that you might not be a virgin anymore?
Yes, you're still a virgin.
Ok, if you haven't had full penatrative sex (i'm talking penis ---> vagina) then yes you're still a virgin.

Tho be to be frank, if you don't fully understand the concepts of sex, should you really be participating in these kinds of acts?
Reply 6
because our world is crumplings under our own suppositions.
Reply 7
You're definitely still a virgin. But as morningtheft says, it's just a word!
Reply 8
Apparantly you loose your virginity when the penis enters the vagina- you don't have to come- just the entrance. I read that on some official med site somewhere. :wink:
I think the whole definition of Virgin has become blurred these days. For girls, the Virginity was defined by the Hymen, and in old times, the only way to break it was through Vaginal intercourse. Even though nowadays, we claim one can be broken whilst doing vigorous sports, for some they can remain unbroken. I had sex at quite a late stage and my first encounter with a guy was quite late. My hymen wasn't broken through intercourse but through fingering!!!

A twisted question to strain you're brains....would you be considered a virgin if you have intercourse with an animal?!?!

:rolleyes:
Reply 10
The official definition is indeed that once a penis touches a vagina, you lose your virginity.

This means that lesbians and gays never lose their virginity...
With question such as what the OP asked, you have to wonder if they are teaching kids anything in schools nowadays.....
Reply 12
Handy
The official definition is indeed that once a penis touches a vagina, you lose your virginity.

This means that lesbians and gays never lose their virginity...


Official according to whom? And define "touching" - in my book it has to be proper penetration.
Reply 13
Officially i.e. medical definition.

And 'your book' is really quite irrelevant :p:
Reply 14
The acutal definition is really unimportant. It's more of a state of mind.
Reply 15
xXMessedUpXx
Ok, if you haven't had full penatrative sex (i'm talking penis ---> vagina) then yes you're still a virgin.

Tho be to be frank, if you don't fully understand the concepts of sex, should you really be participating in these kinds of acts?


Is that what I was supposed to do? I didn't think she looked impressed.
Reply 16
Handy
Officially i.e. medical definition.

And 'your book' is really quite irrelevant :p:


Helen's a medical student you fool. And yes, your definition is wrong.
Reply 17
Anonymous
Hi
I was wanting to know if ur a virgin if you've had oral intercourse wif someone, even if it wasn't full oral intercourse..really worried-help
:confused:


I'd agree with the masses, it's penetrative sex that defines it; a lot of places say it's when your hymen is broken, but in our modern society where that can happen in so many ways other than sex, that part has been lost, to just penetrative sex.

I'm quite confused about what you mean by full and partial oral intercourse though? Or am I just being stupid - full as in 'finished'? Never mind, it doesn't matter!
Reply 18
morningtheft
Virginity isn't a medical term, it's a societal concept.


:ditto: What she said.

There IS no medical definition of "virgin" - all they can tell is if your hymen is intact or not, and ask you if you're sexually active. And yes, I'm a medical student.
Helenia

There IS no medical definition of "virgin" - all they can tell is if your hymen is intact or not, and ask you if you're sexually active.


& as people have said - absence of the former doesn't indicate the latter either! :p: