I'm a bloke, and friends with a girl. For some odd reason, she's told me how many people she's slept with, how many boyfriends she's had and how many guys she's kissed. Is it weird that I know? Should I read anything into the fact she's told me this stuff?
I'm a bloke, and friends with a girl. For some odd reason, she's told me how many people she's slept with, how many boyfriends she's had and how many guys she's kissed. Is it weird that I know? Should I read anything into the fact she's told me this stuff?
No, depends how good friends you are really. If you're not that close maybe she's trying to push the conversation in that direction as a hint-ish type thing. If you're close and she just feels comfortable talking about it it may have been an innocent discussion.
My mate told me when he was pissed that he once stuck his finger up his arse to see what it felt like.
I did not read into that conversation any more than was necessary and definitely didn't consider the possibility that he wanted me to stick my finger up his arse.
Try; firing off innocuously hypothetical scenarios involving yourself, and then waiting to see if she subtly but artificially insinuates herself into the context. To wit;
You: "I'd probably like nothing better than to drift off to sleep; with my girlfriend in my arms, and [insert song] set to loop on the stereo."
Her: "Well, if you'd like; though I'd have to turn it off after the tenth repeat, for fear of going mad."