Am I Gay???

My best friend and I have been friends for a long time and one day we both started kissing each other........I like her a lot but I always get worried that i am bisexual or maybe a lesbian..But the twist to the story is that she is actually the only girl I find attractive even though i have loads of female friends??? Wats going on with me... :confused:

Reply 1

gemby!

2

Maybe you just find her attractive because you have known her for so long. and as a teen it is compulsory to be confused about how you feel lol

Reply 2

The Centipe

10

So what if you are? Just do whatever feels right for you. It doesn't matter what term you feel you are branded by...

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

I'm EXACTLY the same- there's one girl that I adore and I love her- I have done things with her (no other girl) and I am otherwise straight but for this 'bend in the road' as it were! She however doesn't feel anything more than friendly towards me..... :frown:

omg so gay

OP

hheheheh omg i don't think so

Reply 6

Christo

14

Anonymous

hheheheh omg i don't think so

Why bother asking in the first place then?

Reply 7

LostRiot

14

don't worry about whether you're gay or not, just do what you feel like.

I imagine from how you're writing it that this is probably going to be a one off though.

Reply 8

Tyler Durden

17

I don't think there's much point trying to work out a label. If you like your friend and she likes you back then don't not do it out of fear that you might be gay or whatever. Ultimately none of the words "gay", "straight", "bi" etc mean anything - you're attracted to those you're attracted to - simple as that really.

Reply 9

different?

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Anonymous

I'm EXACTLY the same- there's one girl that I adore and I love her- I have done things with her (no other girl) and I am otherwise straight but for this 'bend in the road' as it were! She however doesn't feel anything more than friendly towards me..... :frown:

Your situation sounds a bit tricky, her not wanting you back!

omg neg rep :0(

Anonymous

My best friend and I have been friends for a long time and one day we both started kissing each other........I like her a lot but I always get worried that i am bisexual or maybe a lesbian..But the twist to the story is that she is actually the only girl I find attractive even though i have loads of female friends??? Wats going on with me... :confused:

ask your friend why they kissed you.

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

different?

Your situation sounds a bit tricky, her not wanting you back!

It is- I love her so much :frown:

I just want to make her happy

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

OP

There can't be two anonymous talking..coz u don't know.. who is who...now am lost in the whole situation

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

You are Anonymous user #1 and I am Anonymous user #2- it's like that the whole way through...!

Reply 15

Fluent in Lies

2

All these anon people just merge into one for me. Anyway stop stealing all the girls! Maybe you should talk to her, ask her if she thinks its normal for friends to start kissing.

Reply 16

Profesh

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Anonymous

My best friend and I have been friends for a long time and one day we both started kissing each other........I like her a lot but I always get worried that i am bisexual or maybe a lesbian..But the twist to the story is that she is actually the only girl I find attractive even though i have loads of female friends??? Wats going on with me... :confused:

Why; oh why do people persist in posting threads such as this one, which serve no useful purpose? Might I suggest that you get a grip, and cease putting the cart before the proverbial horse.

Edit: Englishstudent has the right idea.