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Talking to yourself...

i'm a pretty normal 18 year old. i'm a happy person, well-balanced, do well at school and have good friends, but i'm still quite concerned that i find myself talking to myself a lot when i'm alone. it's not a recent thing but have actually gone on for years now as far as i cant remember. not really conversing with myself but i kinda imagine situations where i'm talking to other people, and kinda saying my responses out loud. it's usually in my room but even at other times like when i'm walking down the street. i usually don't realise i'm doing it until i hear a noise that reminds me there are other people around, then i just cringe as i usually don't remember exactly what i said out loud or who heard me. i sometimes mouth things to myself which must look crazy to a passer-by... help??? i just can't help it.

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Reply 1

does it matter? i do stuff like this but it doesnt harm myself or anyone else so i just get on with it..

Reply 2

Anonymous
i'm a pretty normal 18 year old. i'm a happy person, well-balanced, do well at school and have good friends, but i'm still quite concerned that i find myself talking to myself a lot when i'm alone. it's not a recent thing but have actually gone on for years now as far as i cant remember. not really conversing with myself but i kinda imagine situations where i'm talking to other people, and kinda saying my responses out loud. it's usually in my room but even at other times like when i'm walking down the street. i usually don't realise i'm doing it until i hear a noise that reminds me there are other people around, then i just cringe as i usually don't remember exactly what i said out loud or who heard me. i sometimes mouth things to myself which must look crazy to a passer-by... help??? i just can't help it.


I found this post hilarious. The funny thing is, I do it myself, and I have a friend who does it. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Reply 3

I sometimes do it, and i think a lot of people do it as well, i mean if you were having constand, deep conversations with yourself all the time then,ok, something not quite right maybe, but i think there's nothing really to worry about.

Its like some people write in a diary, you talk to yourself, same thing really.

Reply 4

it's kinda embarassing. my family has long noticed it, and i'd sooner i didn't constantly broadcast my thoughts to the world.

Reply 5

I do it. :smile:

Reply 6

Schizophrenic's anonymous.

Reply 7

Anonymous
it's kinda embarassing. my family has long noticed it, and i'd sooner i didn't constantly broadcast my thoughts to the world.


Dont stop doing it because you feel embarassed, i think its a good thing, if its really bothering you that much they try and restrict yourself to writie it in a diary.

Reply 8

When I was younger, when I talked, I'd write whatever I was saying in the air with my finger. How embarassing, the thought of it makes me cringe. :redface:

Reply 9

no seriously guys i get so into these "conversations", i'd start shouting, giggling and cracking jokes. it's awful!

Reply 10

Anonymous
no seriously guys i get so into these "conversations", i'd start shouting, giggling and cracking jokes. it's awful!


Has anybody ever noticed you doing this?

Reply 11

RhiddynUK
Has anybody ever noticed you doing this?


my parents and my brother has mentioned it before... everyone else has probably noticed but have been too polite to have said anything. :rolleyes:

Reply 12

It is nothing to be proud of. Weirdo.

tsk tsk

Reply 13

Anonymous
When I was younger, when I talked, I'd write whatever I was saying in the air with my finger. How embarassing, the thought of it makes me cringe. :redface:


:rofl:

I really have an urge to do that sometimes - usually with question marks for some curious reason. :p:


OP: the fact you realize that no one's there is good - ie you're not delusional. Maybe just lonely? I take it you don't talk to yourself when you're with your mates.

Reply 14

As long as you know you're doing it then there's nothing to be worried about.

Aparently we all "hear" voices in our heads, but it's only a sign of being insane if we don't realise it's just our subconcious... I'm not sure how that's relevant, but it's something I've heard.

I talk to myself - it's the only person I get any sense out of. :p:

Reply 15

i do EXACTLY the same imagine conversations with other people and act out what i would say or if thinking about a past conversation act out what i should have said. i do this while im walking down the street sometimes and when i notice somebody i just try to sing so they just think im singing a song

Reply 16

i talk to myself in french but then i study alevel french so it's ok.

Reply 17

Anonymous
i do EXACTLY the same imagine conversations with other people and act out what i would say or if thinking about a past conversation act out what i should have said. i do this while im walking down the street sometimes and when i notice somebody i just try to sing so they just think im singing a song


i could have written the exact same paragraph, thanx :p:

Reply 18

Anonymous
i talk to myself in french but then i study alevel french so it's ok.


LOL me too, and in Spanish.

Or sometimes when people ask me questions in English I answer in French on purpose, and they get annoyed. I actually don't know why I do it.

Reply 19

Zakaz
:rofl:

OP: the fact you realize that no one's there is good - ie you're not delusional. Maybe just lonely? I take it you don't talk to yourself when you're with your mates.


lol, its kinda hard to talk to myself when i'm with my mates, they'd usually interrupt and try and join in the conversation or something... yeh, that's rudeness for ya.

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