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Girls, how many of you own one?

Just wondering, how many girls own dildos?
My boyfriend of 2 yrs recently asked me if I would use one. I don't own one but have been thinking of getting one for a while. Although we're open to each other, I felt awkward talking about it. He asked whether I would let him use it on me..but I thought this would be slightly weird, and would freak him out, using some big rubber thing in the shape of what he has between his legs..but maybe I'm wrong! What do you reckon guys? Would you use one with a girl?
And girls- would you recommend getting one..for personal use? Thanks

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Reply 1
He not meeting your needs then?

hehhehheh.
Reply 2
:rofl: nice one libertine.

On a seious note, i dont see any harm.
Reply 3
I don't.
Reply 4
I think its fine. you shouldn't feel unconfortable using it, there is no problem really. It would spice things up and its a new experience. I say go for it.
Reply 5
What do you mean by personal :rolleyes: use?
Reply 6
Tell him he can only use one on you if, he lets you use on on him first! should take the pressure off for a while!
Reply 7
I don't see why they're necessary. Get a man girls!
I own a vibrator which isn't quite the same but it's along those lines :smile:

I've never quite understood men who find it a turn on but I know loads of them do, so if you're comfortable doing it then I'm sure he'll love you forever for it :biggrin: I always figured if I had a bf there with me I could find *much* better things to put down there than a rampant rabbit! Ah the life of a single gal...
Reply 9
why not use a dildo? if your boyfriend says he would like that then go for it and whatever....u might be pleasantly surprised.
If I were you I wouldn't get one for personal use, all my girl-friends tell my a vibrator is much better. Personally, i dont like mechanical stuff:P
How come if a guy owns a fleshlight he is a loser?
What's a fleshlight?!!!
(prepares to sound naive)....
It's not weird really..it's cos men like to, erm, watch girls play. He's probabaly hoping that if he introduces one into the equation you'll get busy in his absence..maybe! I dunno


*and yes, recommended..though as you've already got a boyfriend I would imagine less so

ooh, sorry..didnt read it properly, i meant a vibe as recommended..dunno bout anything else lol
Anonymous
Just wondering, how many girls own dildos?
My boyfriend of 2 yrs recently asked me if I would use one. I don't own one but have been thinking of getting one for a while. Although we're open to each other, I felt awkward talking about it. He asked whether I would let him use it on me..but I thought this would be slightly weird, and would freak him out, using some big rubber thing in the shape of what he has between his legs..but maybe I'm wrong! What do you reckon guys? Would you use one with a girl?
And girls- would you recommend getting one..for personal use? Thanks


Is it worth having one if you're more a clitoral kind of woman (instead of vaginal) ?
SamTheMan
Is it worth having one if you're more a clitoral kind of woman (instead of vaginal) ?


A vibrator hell yeah, a dildo maybe not. The latter is usually for an "in and out" kinda gal.
Little Girl Red
What's a fleshlight?!!!
(prepares to sound naive)....


I think cheesecakebob has been paying too much attention to the adverts on the many porn websites he's been looking at. I think it's a brand of sextoys for men.

Oh **** I burnt myself in the process (I mean myself, not my....)
Little Girl Red
What's a fleshlight?!!!
(prepares to sound naive)....


Its an artificial pussy. Just google it.

And my girl has a dildo, well a vibrator if we're getting precise.
I've got a vibrator - well, he bought it for me. i don't find it that amazing, although it can be fun to use together.

i dont see the point in having a dildo when you have the real thing available! also, like greg said, if you prefer clitoral stimilation, its not going to do that much for you!
Tarts_n_Vicars
A vibrator hell yeah, a dildo maybe not. The latter is usually for an "in and out" kinda gal.


What if you're not a "humming" kind of girl when it comes to clitoral matters?
Well they have varying speeds so if you like it slow you can have it that way. Or you could just switch it off altogether and boom, it's a dildo. Two for one deal :biggrin: