I'm in a LDR, my boyfriend is in NY at the moment.
He just bbmed me to say his friends are all going to a strip club tonight then a club after and asked if this is okay with me and if he is allowed ?
Considering the fact his all the way in NY he could have easily gone and not told me.
What should I say ?
Yeah but constantly send him texts with a picture of your face...
Oh lighten up. So what if us lads like sex and girls. How many times do you say to your lady friends "look at that hot guy" or "if I was single.." but yet when we do something even remotely similar we get flamed!
Well, considering he asked you if it was alright and in doing this alerted you that he was planning on going, I wouldn't worry. As you said, he could easily have went with you none the wiser.
Bring the strip club to him?
lolol, asking a girl for permission to do things.
Yes, of course he should go. It's a strip club, not an orgy club.
What would be so bad about him going? Strip clubs are rubbish. It's like going into Gregg's , buying a pie and then never eating it.
Deary me...if it was me, I would tell my boyfriend that I wasn't comfortable with the idea because I wouldn't exactly want him to be looking at other girls stripping, but I wouldn't forbid it. It's his choice what he wants to do and once he's aware of my opinion about it, there's nothing else I can do. Of course, if he went, I wouldn't be happy, but I would tell this to him in advance so that he knows. What would worry me more is that fact that he thought it would be acceptable enough to even ask - I wouldn't dare ask to go to a male strip club.
But it's good he did ask you as he was uncertain - at least he's aware that you may feel weird about it and it won't be a total shock if you decided to tell him it's a bad idea.
Of course you should. What's he gonna do, run off with a lap-dancer?
Let him go!!.Cant believe he asked for your permission though.Imagine the stick he'll get from his mates if he turns round and says"My girlfriend says I cant go".
what's with all these people being outraged at the thought of someone asking if it's ok to do this? It's called communication, and consideration for your partner.
if i were in the ops position i'd say yes, but on the condition that he didn't have a private dance.