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Kissing in the cinema

Anonymous not because this is exceptionally embarassing..although it kindof is cos it's a lame thing to ask..but because they might read it, theyre kindof taken, it might not happen and someone I know may read it..

Anyway..kissing in the cinema.. If I went to the cinema w a friend, who knows I like him, but is taken, but likes me, and we're bringing wine, and I want to kiss him..shall I? Basically his relationship is screwed, but Im about 95% sure nothing'll happen between us until like after Uni or something, soo..I want to kiss him, it shouldnt change our friendship, except Ive wanted to for over a year, but what if I try to and he's like "wtf??!" cos thatd be embarrassing.. We both joke about.. maybe initiate it by "joking" i will.. then actually doing it?
Also..I wanna see the film!
Also..the angle'll be uncomfortable surely? Ive never kissed in a cinema before, but it's all seats in rows and armrests and stuff..
So. Should anything happen? Should I initiate it? (I dont think I wanna chance waiting for him to, incase he doesnt!) How? Just let it be spontaneous and hope there is a "moment"?

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Reply 1

Firstly why are you drinking wine in a cinema?!

And HELL YES, if you want his ass you TAKE IT.

Just sit real close and sort of...bump lips, if he likes it he'll grabs you up :wink:

Reply 2

Yeah, whya re you drinking wine in the cinema?

Also, some of the cinemas I've been to have had arm-rests that can be raised out of the way, generally on the back-row, so it would be easier for kissing et al, so that shouldn't be a problem if you have those seats. :wink: If not, then kissing in the cinema can be a little awkward.

Also, there are a thousand better places to find out if this guy likes you than the cinema - perhaps you should try something else?

Reply 3

yeh i was confused by the wine in cinema bit...

You say you joke about with him, well if you reckon you could test him by joking and then maybe go for it like that, then if he is against it, just play it off as a joke. Finally if you want to kiss in the cinema then yes it is possible!

Reply 4

Kissing in the cinema is daft unless you're kissing whilst the adverts are on, and even then it's a bit silly because if it's got you horny you have to wait at least an hour and a half for the film to finish!

Reply 5

We're drinking in the cinema because we both love drinking! Im bringing it.. I said I have alcopops (lame), rum (weird horrible non brand stuff) or wine (which he's said before makes him horny) and he was like "wine!! but wine will get us romantic!! and we're going to to the cinema!!" "Bring lots!!!" "lol.. jk.." "bring 3 bottles" on msn.. and when I said Id prob get horny/romantic and if he was being all "taken and moralistic then stop me jumping on someone else" and he went "moralistic? me?" "i wont stop you btw"?

I know we like each other. Everyone jokes about as it being a "forbidden love" and that's really not funny, but whatever.
I know a first kiss (well..proper kiss..we had a nye kiss but no tongues) wouldnt be perfect w the awkwardness of a cinema, but I need to stop waiting for perfection I think

Reply 6

Anonymous
We're drinking in the cinema because we both love drinking! Im bringing it.. I said I have alcopops (lame), rum (weird horrible non brand stuff) or wine (which he's said before makes him horny) and he was like "wine!! but wine will get us romantic!! and we're going to to the cinema!!" "Bring lots!!!" "lol.. jk.." "bring 3 bottles" on msn.. and when I said Id prob get horny/romantic and if he was being all "taken and moralistic then stop me jumping on someone else" and he went "moralistic? me?" "i wont stop you btw"?

I know we like each other. Everyone jokes about as it being a "forbidden love" and that's really not funny, but whatever.
I know a first kiss (well..proper kiss..we had a nye kiss but no tongues) wouldnt be perfect w the awkwardness of a cinema, but I need to stop waiting for perfection I think


Right. You know most cinemas have CCTV these days, and you'll probably be kicked out?

Reply 7

uh huh.. sure they have cctv, but we'll think of a way to keep it hidden

Reply 8

what you gonna do, swig it out of the bottle? or take in wine glasses?

Reply 9

Fleece
what you gonna do, swig it out of the bottle? or take in wine glasses?


Maybe she's just going to ask for 2 glasses of tap water at the confectionary kisosk and then pour the wine into that after they'd got rid of the water?

Reply 10

A couple of my mates took a load of beer down the cinema the other week, noone noticed :wink:

Reply 11

Note, if you wrap it in your coat, they may get suspicious that you both are drinking and getting drunk on a coat.

Reply 12

Angel Interceptor
Maybe she's just going to ask for 2 glasses of tap water at the confectionary kisosk and then pour the wine into that after they'd got rid of the water?


all the cinemas ive been to dont have tap water...

Reply 13

They might get suspicious when the water suddenly turns red, or if it's white wine, a yellowish tinge.

woops Im thick itll be black and white! haha! Although if its red wine it'll still come up as dark..

Just take white wine. :smile:

Better yet, Bucks Fizz.

Reply 14

Seriously, noone will notice if you have it in like a bag (not a carrier bag obv.) and sit reasonably away from the front

Reply 15

Yeah, make sure it's a brown paper bag. ~_^

Reply 16

girl afraid
Yeah, make sure it's a brown paper bag. ~_^


A little one?

Reply 17

Well, if she had a *really* big handbag, she'd be fine >_>

Reply 18

You could get a really long straw and then keep the wine in your bag which you keep on the floor!

You can tell I've done this before.

Reply 19

clockworkapples
You could get a really long straw and then keep the wine in your bag which you keep on the floor!

You can tell I've done this before.


Again, on CCTV that might look abit suspicious..