Is Cyber Sex, Real Sex

Lets fact it I bet a lot of you have done it. That being this so called Cyber sex, its what I think is called 'playacting' as if both are having sex, but in front of the PC screen. Ok I think most here know what we are on about. But my question is, does it create the feeling of having real sex. Because I be fair, I have had cyber with a good lady friend, we are both of age to 'do it' . We done it because we was miles apart, and just enjoy each others company. For me yeah I had the same feeling as if will were in the same room.

So without getting to rude is cyber sex, a good way to enjoy sex, if the two people cannot be together, and of course still of age to 'do it' I enjoyed doing it,she it. Are we right to do this kind of 'play acting' sex . Whats people views of this form of having sex?

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Reply 1

Drug Lord

To each their own.

If you enjoy it, why bother about what others think?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

If you're both consenting adults, what's to worry about?
It's not as much fun as being together, it's true. It doesn't have that lovely warm feeling when you're cuddled up to someone afterwards. But, if you really want to be with each other and can't (and I've been then in the same position) then it's an adequate temporary substitute - as long as it doesn't become your main means of contact.

Reply 3

bluejeansdave

Thanks, good points . Ok another point being brave how many do or have done it!

Reply 4

Tarts_n_Vicars

Why would it be wrong? It's not like you could have "real" sex with her and are saying "actually baby I prefer it in front of the computer".

Distance has made it a necessity and if you both feel comfortable with it - why not? It's like phone sex but via the pc. Go for it :smile:

I did cyber sex once years ago but much prefer phone sex now...well if he lives a million miles away obviously (ex lived far FAR away lol). If he lived down the road I'd be a bit miffed if he said "go home and call me instead" lol

Reply 5

hugatree

It's good when you're in a long-distance relationship, but of course it's not real sex and therefore not as good.

Reply 6

Dude

Its really no different then phone sex.

Reply 7

Helenia

It reminds me a little of when I was younger and would go in chatrooms where the main conversation opener was "hi wanna cyber?" Looking back, that was very very odd.

Reply 8

xXMessedUpXx

No

I prefer real sex.... :eek:

Reply 9

Sithius

I find it weird... lol and no it isn't like real sex IMHO.

Reply 10

rockthecasbah

Real sex overrules any cyber, telephone or any other non-physical contact sex.
But I get it if you're in a long distance relationship.

Erm... IMO, no.

What do you mean cyber sex? :-/

Reply 13

Ferrus

Sithius

no it isn't like real sex

I would've thought this was stating the obvious to be honest.

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

I really does depend on the circumstances. I'm not a big fan of it myself but I've tried it a couple of times and it was exciting, especially if you knew the other person on the end. But I wouldn't go randomly into a chat room and do it, as the person may be making a mockery you at the other end. Each to their own, though!

Reply 15

rosetinted

I've cybered with boyfriends and girlfriends in the past..mainly when I'm in another country so obviously it's impossible to do anything other than phone or cyber. I'm not sure I'd get turned on cybering with someone I didn't know. IMO the point is to imagine your guy or gal being there with you. If you didn't know them then how could you do that?

Reply 16

Lady_Muck

It's only like phone sex. Obviously I wouldn't do it with a randomer or any of my friends, but with your bf/gf it's fine. Obviously not in the place of real sex

Reply 17

pumpkin7

cyber sex isn't real sex at all. if you had cyber and you were a virgin, it wouldn't make you not a virgin... so... i'd say it was just a bit of harmless fun.

Reply 18

Kate.

Course it's not like real sex...You're on your own looking at words on a screen. Haha. I can't see myself doing it, seems kinda stupid to me, but yeah, each to their own.