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icy_shadow2006

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Reply 1

TrentEnd

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icy_shadow2006

im 16 n my first gf just broke up wid me :frown:

, 2 be honest i saw it comin n i thought of breaking up anyways.

The timing wasnt perfect, day b4 valentines day, lol

i was just wondering if peps could give me advice on things 2 help getting over her...

Maybe she left you for someone that can type properly...

seriously though, how long were you going out for?

Reply 2

Segat1

16

Hang on, you want your gf's eggs? Gross...

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Derek, what do we do when we fall off the horse............... We get back on!

Go out babe. Everyone in the pub will be a singleton, so go mad. Oh, you're underage. Go to offy, buy cider, find overpass and drink. Kidding.

No mate, you just have to sit it out. Think about it and cry. Hit something (like a wall). Keep the stuff she gave you, put it in a box and just work through it. Its bascially grief, so it will get better with time...

Reply 3

brimstone

7

Sorry, not helpful but text speak isn't a good idea on this forum.

Reply 4

pumpkin7

13

typed especially so you can understand it:

th bst way 2 get ova a gurl iz 2 get unda anuvva 1.

Reply 5

icy_shadow2006

OP

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Reply 6

q1w2e3r4t5y

Leave her alone, if she wants to come back to you she will, but just try and forget about her. Do something you enjoy to pass the time.

Reply 7

stratomaster

A trampoline could do the trick

Reply 8

speedstacker

3

well i experienced tis as well. As most ppl say "u'll get over it as time pass".I agree with tis. Altho it's hard but u'll forget bout the whole thing oneday.
BTW I'm not too sad cos i got 2 cards from meiterious guys lol.But they r annoying me!

Reply 9

pumpkin7

13

hmm, a month..
to be honest, i couldn't see anyone being too attached after just a month, but maybe you two were.
this should be really easy to get past though. you have to remember that girlfriends will come and go... it is most likely that you will have many girlfriends before you find 'the one'..
if it is getting you down that much, go out, find someone else, and snog your troubles away :biggrin:

Reply 10

slk999

15

Okay, here are top tips that I've found really work:

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Cut up any photos you may have of her and as you do it try and imagine images you have of her dissolve in your mind.

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If you have any music that reminds you of her; get rid of it, be it on your computer, CD player, iPod, whatever; just do it.

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If you have any personal gifts she gave you then dispose of them- I did this and it really worked, though it was hyper hard at the time 'cause you always think you might get back with her, but no. Do it.

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Listen to music that's totally new and different that has no possibility of jogging your memory of her.

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Try to think long term, think of where you want to be in a year- it will give you more confidence.

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Make a list of all the things you hated about her and then put it up all over your room- I put one up on my door at eye level so whenever I went out I saw it and eventually I thought what the hell was I thinking about when I fell in love with her.

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And finally, just try to dispose of her completely from your mind. Do something you really enjoy doing. Go out with friends- flirt with other girls if you like (hehe, I did this too with some interesting consequences!!)

Hope that helps.

Reply 11

slk999

15

pumpkin7

hmm, a month..
to be honest, i couldn't see anyone being too attached after just a month, but maybe you two were.
this should be really easy to get past though. you have to remember that girlfriends will come and go... it is most likely that you will have many girlfriends before you find 'the one'..
if it is getting you down that much, go out, find someone else, and snog your troubles away :biggrin:

Yeah, I think if it was only a month, then it shouldn't be too hard. I employed my tactics because it had been 2 years (and she was my first love)

Reply 12

speedstacker

3

pumpkin7

hmm, a month..
to be honest, i couldn't see anyone being too attached after just a month, but maybe you two were.
this should be really easy to get past though. you have to remember that girlfriends will come and go... it is most likely that you will have many girlfriends before you find 'the one'..
if it is getting you down that much, go out, find someone else, and snog your troubles away :biggrin:

It's not the time that makes him strugle to get over it, it's the fact that this is his first love! I went out with my ex(first bf) for 2 months nearly 3 months and we broke up about a month ago and i still think bout him (sometimes) but i'm glad for wot i did tho.

Reply 13

pumpkin7

13

i guess so.. i didn't think about that.

though after a month, i'm not sure it is THAT hard to move on.. you can't bein love with someone properly after a month..

Reply 14

speedstacker

3

I'm not still in love with him tho. he just keeps appearing in my mind when i'm alone(whenever i'm not using my brain) i dunno why and i trust wot Bouncy B told me (that i'll forget him oneday.)

Reply 15

pumpkin7

13

yeah you probably will.. people always pop into your head when you aren't doing anything too.. so

Reply 16

white_haired_wizard

16

icy_shadow2006

im 16 n my first gf just broke up wid me :frown:

, 2 be honest i saw it comin n i thought of breaking up anyways.

The timing wasnt perfect, day b4 valentines day, lol

i was just wondering if peps could give me advice on things 2 help getting over her...

stop being such a pússy and spell properly, you lazy ****.
Just have a good old jerk tonight.

EDIT - i see you have apologised for the text speak.
Just hmm chill out, take a long nice soak in the bath with some radox with some chill out music in the background - that should temporarily ease your mind etc...good luck dude

Reply 17

shinytoy

18

icy_shadow2006

Sorry about the text language, it just seemed easier but i get the point,

We had been going out for just over a month, i know its not that much but she was my first girlfriend and im so lost now were not together.

But she was the most amazing, funny, attractive, intresting, secure... girl i have ever met

maybe if you chat about it with us you will unload and feel better.

why/how did you brek up? how does she feel about it?

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