argh this guy...........someone help

right well I just seriously feel like I need to get all my thoughts and feelings off my chest because this guy is driving me crazy........but its quite a long story so bear with me
so i met him through my best mate (they grew up together) and I moved to his 6th form (now in 2nd yr) but i didnt fancy him from the 1st time i met him, however throughout yr 12 i realised that he was a great guy and i liked him on and off. ANYWAY it is really difficult to try and explain what this guy is like, he is soooo private and rely keeps himself 2 himself and i he definitely finds it hard to trust people. He seems to be able to confide in me tho for whatever reason, and i feel like i could tell him anything........recently we have been getting closer and i just cant get him out of my mind
he just never flirts or anything, he isnt your average teenage guy and that is why i am finding it so difficult to work out how he feels
i am seeing him on thursday, going out with my best mate him and my best mates french friend who is over from paris
shall i tell him i like him??
please help

Reply 1

Misogynist

18

If you like him just tell him. There's no cut and dry way to talking to guys..Even average teenagers have different opinions and views on stuff. It's as simple as telling him you like him it'll only take a few seconds.

Reply 2

Fudgie

Um...do you have his email? If not then i dunno.
One day i got this chain mail (they are so annoying), anyway...it said stuff like: Would you date me? Would you sleep with me?
Just stuff like that so to find out how he feels about you first, you could act like your just sending that kind of chain mail to him and he might reply and see what he put as his answers. But if all else fails, just tell him how you feel.

Reply 3

smiley :)

Kitty kat

Um...do you have his email? If not then i dunno.
One day i got this chain mail (they are so annoying), anyway...it said stuff like: Would you date me? Would you sleep with me?
Just stuff like that so to find out how he feels about you first, you could act like your just sending that kind of chain mail to him and he might reply and see what he put as his answers. But if all else fails, just tell him how you feel.

unless he's the sort of guy who hates chain mails and deletes them at first glance!

I say tell him.

Reply 4

turkish_delight

OP

10

he wouldnt fill in one of those emails

Reply 5

turkish_delight

OP

10

i dont wanna lose him forever

Reply 6

turkish_delight

OP

10

well how should i go about telling him???

Reply 7

icy_shadow2006

sounds like this guy has been single for a long time, so if you go in for a kiss i doubt he will reject you.

good luck

Reply 8

turkish_delight

OP

10

icy_shadow2006

sounds like this guy has been single for a long time, so if you go in for a kiss i doubt he will reject you.

good luck

it isn't like he has never had the chance 2 pull girls, it seems like he doesn't want 2 just for the sake of it etc
i think ur missing the point

Reply 9

latentcorpse

12

my advice is somewhat unreliable - i'm gonna have to answer yes to your question but seeing as i cant pluck up the courage to ask out the girl i have fancied for like a year and 2 months now this may be somewhat ironic and slightly useless - dont rely on others opinions - only u can tell if its right - i.e. i know its right to ask this girl out i am just an inhibited recalcitrant xenophobe with serious intamacy issues!

argh this guy...........someone help

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