Advice on how to go about this . . .

Hi all,

I got (my first ever) valentines card yesterday and I have a pretty good idea who it's off - can recognise the handwriting a bit lol

Thing is, I'm 99% sure that this person has sent it, but it is something she would never ever do . . . she's not into doing things like that.

Anyway, I really like this person and want to show my appreciation for the card. Has anyone got any suggestions of things that I could do/give?

As I said, there's a 1% chance that this person didn't actually send it, so whilst I do want to do something I don't want it to spectacularly backfire!!!

Any suggestions/advice welcome. Cheers.

Reply 1

q1w2e3r4t5y

Go up to her with the card. Ask her if she knows who's handwriting it might be, and ask her to help you work out who it was. Try and examine her reaction.

Reply 2

Tarts_n_Vicars

Or say you got nowt for valentines...play the sympathy card heavily and see does she fess up to having sent you something.

Reply 3

vicky600

oo i like that idea! .. lol..

but if you say the chances of her sending it are 99% well its kinda nearly deifinite.. go for it and ask her

Reply 4

Segat1

Hello? Do you like her too? The get a big bunch of flowers and present them to her. :love:

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Hmmmm I dunno . . . . any other suggestions?

Reply 6

bobbob

Simple: go up to her and start talking about it, saying you wonder who it's off. "You'd obviously never do such a thing". Judge by the reaction :smile:

Reply 7

Mark S

Well dont jump right in there and ask her if the card is from her, because the fact you're so sure will probably show and you dont want to make yourself look stupid if it wasnt her.

Reply 8

Leigh

Don't worry too much about the card, just use the 99% chance you have to build up some courage and ask her out on a date.
99% chance says she sent the card, so says yes.
With the other 1%, as long as you leave the card out of it, you don't look stupid either way; you either get a standard rejection, or she says yes, and even if she didn't send it, you still win.

Reply 9

grace

why don't you just tell her you got a valentine's card, in a cheeky way...that way, if it's her she might playfully respond and indicate it was her. and if it wasn't her, she may be driven mad by jealousy at the thought that someone else was trying to woo you :smile:

Reply 10

SamTheMan

Two can play that game... send a card to her or maybe some flowers claiming to be her secret admirer but making a slight hint that it's you.

Reply 11

Anonymous #2

lol it was me who sent you the card!

Reply 12

latentcorpse

i was going to post about this but that ^^^^^^^ i was not expecting!

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

Anonymous

lol it was me who sent you the card!

Oh my you're funny aren't you. ^o)

Reply 14

jb_sweden

Walk up behind her, whisper in her ear "thanks... I liked the card very much..." then just simply walk away!

Really... try it!

if it would be obvious that you're refering to the card, just whisper "thanks". That's awesome!