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Reply 60
Little Girl Red
it is possible to change your mind, you know. Basically, he didn't believe in sex before marriage but I did. So we ended up sleeping together for a few months. I became a christian during this time and just ended up totally regretting sleeping with him. So we stopped. And now we don't believe in sex before marriage, so are waiting.....
See how its possible?
:P
See how its possible?
:P
I hope Christians enjoy all the sex they are not having. Sex can be life-affirming, pleasurable and an expression of love. Some things I will never understand, its mostly that hypocritical St. Augustines fault.
Reply 61
15
Pretty Boy
L-O-L, Im startin 2 like you. 
No, of course women should enjoy sex, but not IMO with a vibrating piece of plastic but with REAL people.
All that 'forcing sex' stuff is plain crazy, and makes u sound like a defensive feminist.
Sex toys/dildos are just not classy to me - thats my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Personally, I dont think you are the type of girl to use one. But maybe I'm wrong.
Nice guys do finish last cos they're too scared to make a move. I don't know, you seemed to have me pegged for a certain sorta guy - I think ur wrong, but whatever, its cool.
If my current g/f didn't like the way I looked, she wouldn't have bothered with me in the first place. But you know, I ain't trippin either way.
No, of course women should enjoy sex, but not IMO with a vibrating piece of plastic but with REAL people.
All that 'forcing sex' stuff is plain crazy, and makes u sound like a defensive feminist.
Sex toys/dildos are just not classy to me - thats my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Personally, I dont think you are the type of girl to use one. But maybe I'm wrong.
Nice guys do finish last cos they're too scared to make a move. I don't know, you seemed to have me pegged for a certain sorta guy - I think ur wrong, but whatever, its cool.
If my current g/f didn't like the way I looked, she wouldn't have bothered with me in the first place. But you know, I ain't trippin either way.
Out of interest what do you think about masturbation by women without plastic? And for guys?
Reply 62
Pretty Boy
L-O-L, Im startin 2 like you.
No, of course women should enjoy sex, but not IMO with a vibrating piece of plastic but with REAL people.
All that 'forcing sex' stuff is plain crazy, and makes u sound like a defensive feminist.
Sex toys/dildos are just not classy to me - thats my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Personally, I dont think you are the type of girl to use one. But maybe I'm wrong.
Nice guys do finish last cos they're too scared to make a move. I don't know, you seemed to have me pegged for a certain sorta guy - I think ur wrong, but whatever, its cool.
If my current g/f didn't like the way I looked, she wouldn't have bothered with me in the first place. But you know, I ain't trippin either way.
No, of course women should enjoy sex, but not IMO with a vibrating piece of plastic but with REAL people.
All that 'forcing sex' stuff is plain crazy, and makes u sound like a defensive feminist.
Sex toys/dildos are just not classy to me - thats my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Personally, I dont think you are the type of girl to use one. But maybe I'm wrong.
Nice guys do finish last cos they're too scared to make a move. I don't know, you seemed to have me pegged for a certain sorta guy - I think ur wrong, but whatever, its cool.
If my current g/f didn't like the way I looked, she wouldn't have bothered with me in the first place. But you know, I ain't trippin either way.
Dicks don't vibrate, Pretty Boy. That piece of plastic can do something you definitely can't...
And in any case, if you don't like slutty girls, what would you rather a single girl did? Have one night stands with different guys every week? Or use a vibrator? Or does she not get her kicks at all in the absence of a man? I don't have one, but I expect I will at some point.
Anyway, as I said, finishing last is a good thing, and I would rather make a move on a nice guy than have a bad guy make a move on me.
Reply 63
13
i'd be happy to - plus you would have that security of knowing neither of you would catch anything :P har.
though with my bf, no doubt he will cheat when he goes to uni, where there are lots of girls with big boobs.
though with my bf, no doubt he will cheat when he goes to uni, where there are lots of girls with big boobs.
Reply 64
19
Pretty Boy
It's not just outdated or traditional, it's sexist. It's having one rule for blokes: being 'successful' is good, men don't need to be good looking, should cheat on their girlfriends... and yet women should: "show some sorta conscience and morality" in not having one night stands, have to be good looking and shouldn't have personal gratification. That's not old fashioned, that's hypocritical. Old fashioned would be to say that *people* should have one night stands, that *people* shouldn't gratify themselves.
Reply 65
Pretty Boy
Who wants a nice guy? not the girls I be with
Perhaps if you could learn English you might be more successful.
Reply 66
pumpkin7
i'd be happy to - plus you would have that security of knowing neither of you would catch anything :P har.
though with my bf, no doubt he will cheat when he goes to uni, where there are lots of girls with big boobs.
though with my bf, no doubt he will cheat when he goes to uni, where there are lots of girls with big boobs.
God, if you believe that about him then why are you with him? I considered breaking up with my ex when he went to uni even though I knew he would do nothing of the kind.
Reply 67
20
Pretty Boy
L-O-L, Im startin 2 like you.
No, of course women should enjoy sex, but not IMO with a vibrating piece of plastic but with REAL people.
All that 'forcing sex' stuff is plain crazy, and makes u sound like a defensive feminist.
Sex toys/dildos are just not classy to me - thats my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Personally, I dont think you are the type of girl to use one. But maybe I'm wrong.
Nice guys do finish last cos they're too scared to make a move. I don't know, you seemed to have me pegged for a certain sorta guy - I think ur wrong, but whatever, its cool.
If my current g/f didn't like the way I looked, she wouldn't have bothered with me in the first place. But you know, I ain't trippin either way.
No, of course women should enjoy sex, but not IMO with a vibrating piece of plastic but with REAL people.
All that 'forcing sex' stuff is plain crazy, and makes u sound like a defensive feminist.
Sex toys/dildos are just not classy to me - thats my opinion and I'm entitled to it.
Personally, I dont think you are the type of girl to use one. But maybe I'm wrong.
Nice guys do finish last cos they're too scared to make a move. I don't know, you seemed to have me pegged for a certain sorta guy - I think ur wrong, but whatever, its cool.
If my current g/f didn't like the way I looked, she wouldn't have bothered with me in the first place. But you know, I ain't trippin either way.
Perhaps, because your typology is fundamentally preposterous.
Reply 68
pumpkin7
i'd be happy to - plus you would have that security of knowing neither of you would catch anything :P har.
though with my bf, no doubt he will cheat when he goes to uni, where there are lots of girls with big boobs.
though with my bf, no doubt he will cheat when he goes to uni, where there are lots of girls with big boobs.
Big boobs scare me, and they are doomed to sag one day. little ones are cute, sexy and stay perky lifelong!
And Brunettes kick Blondes asses, or spank them.
Reply 69
Pretty Boy
hehe, I dont vibrate, but I give it my best shot
I'd rather she used a vibrator than have one night stands every week. But, theres no need for either. But, personally, the type of girl I like is the type that wouldn't do either. Whats wrong with keepin it natural until you find a guy you trust and feel comfortable with?
And I told you before, no one likes 'bad guys', but surely you'd want someone who has the confidence to be themselves and make a move. Not a guy that hangs around all the time pretending to be your friend and complaining to his mates that he's infatuated.
Oh, and I knew u didnt have one, please dont get one to spite the person you think I might be.
I'd rather she used a vibrator than have one night stands every week. But, theres no need for either. But, personally, the type of girl I like is the type that wouldn't do either. Whats wrong with keepin it natural until you find a guy you trust and feel comfortable with?
And I told you before, no one likes 'bad guys', but surely you'd want someone who has the confidence to be themselves and make a move. Not a guy that hangs around all the time pretending to be your friend and complaining to his mates that he's infatuated.
Oh, and I knew u didnt have one, please dont get one to spite the person you think I might be.
Girls using vibrators is not a threat to men. Stop being so insecure. At the end of the day few girls are going to prefer to settle down with a vibrator. The more women understand their bodies, enjoy them, and have orgasms, the more they will want to follow their lustful urges for others. Man has nothing to lose from the sexual liberation of women, it improves sex for everyone. Womens sex drives are different from mens because if they lie dormant women can become used to and comfortable without sex, whereas men just get increasingly horny through abstinence, so the vibrator is a gift to all. Its quite fun to introduce a vibrator into sex sometimes. Good sex is about variety, and continual experimentation.
Reply 70
Pretty Boy
hehe, I dont vibrate, but I give it my best shot
I'd rather she used a vibrator than have one night stands every week. But, theres no need for either. But, personally, the type of girl I like is the type that wouldn't do either. Whats wrong with keepin it natural until you find a guy you trust and feel comfortable with?
And I told you before, no one likes 'bad guys', but surely you'd want someone who has the confidence to be themselves and make a move. Not a guy that hangs around all the time pretending to be your friend and complaining to his mates that he's infatuated.
Oh, and I knew u didnt have one, please dont get one to spite the person you think I might be.
I'd rather she used a vibrator than have one night stands every week. But, theres no need for either. But, personally, the type of girl I like is the type that wouldn't do either. Whats wrong with keepin it natural until you find a guy you trust and feel comfortable with?
And I told you before, no one likes 'bad guys', but surely you'd want someone who has the confidence to be themselves and make a move. Not a guy that hangs around all the time pretending to be your friend and complaining to his mates that he's infatuated.
Oh, and I knew u didnt have one, please dont get one to spite the person you think I might be.
Oh please...
I'm not going to get a vibrator because I think it will annoy some dumb nobody on the internet who I don't even know. I'm going to get one when I have the money, because I want one.
Women find it much harder to orgasm than men. In fact, I can't. Maybe a vibrator will do the trick. Who knows? The point is, you can't hold on tight and keep going until you get off, because women's bodies are much more subtle than that. And in any case, even if you can get off "naturally", if it feels better with a vibrator, why not use one?
You're the kind of guy I hope I never end up with. Even if it weren't for your hideous views on other things, your outdated attitude towards sex toys suggests a reluctance to try new things, which makes for a dull sex life.
And I resent you saying you "knew didn't have one" when you know nothing about me.
Reply 71
Pretty Boy
Well, if you've never had one, then maybe it'll be therapeutic.
Personally, I think you should just relax.
How would you feel if your boyfriend had a buttplug or something like that?
See my point?
I wouldn't read too much into my so-called 'hideous' views. They fluctuate with my moods and don't really represent me.
On the last thing tho, I was right.
Personally, I think you should just relax.
How would you feel if your boyfriend had a buttplug or something like that?
See my point?
I wouldn't read too much into my so-called 'hideous' views. They fluctuate with my moods and don't really represent me.
On the last thing tho, I was right.
You were only right due to the current state of my bank balance; it's hardly anything to pride yourself on. If my boyfriend wanted to use sex toys, I wouldn't mind at all, so no, I don't see your point. And I'm perfectly relaxed, I just think you're a fool.
Reply 72
Pretty Boy
Well, if you've never had one, then maybe it'll be therapeutic.
Personally, I think you should just relax.
How would you feel if your boyfriend had a buttplug or something like that?
See my point?
I wouldn't read too much into my so-called 'hideous' views. They fluctuate with my moods and don't really represent me.
On the last thing tho, I was right.
Personally, I think you should just relax.
How would you feel if your boyfriend had a buttplug or something like that?
See my point?
I wouldn't read too much into my so-called 'hideous' views. They fluctuate with my moods and don't really represent me.
On the last thing tho, I was right.
I used a vibrating butt plug on my girlfriend, along with other toys, what is wrong with that?
Reply 73
Pretty Boy
I'm not being insecure. Nothing disgusts me more than the thought of a dildo or vibrator near any girl I've been with. I'm fine with people I don't really know or have no relationship with. I remember one time, some girl put a vibrator in my drink and then told me she'd used it earlier. She expected me to be impressed, nothing could be further from the truth
Yes, but that genuinely IS disgusting....
Using them either on your own or with a partner to enhance your sex life is not sleazy at all. You have genuine issues. Maybe you're just worried that she will compare the size of her dildo to the size of your penis?
Reply 74
20
Pretty Boy
I'm not being insecure. Nothing disgusts me more than the thought of a dildo or vibrator near any girl I've been with. I'm fine with people I don't really know or have no relationship with. I remember one time, some girl put a vibrator in my drink and then told me she'd used it earlier. She expected me to be impressed, nothing could be further from the truth
You really do genuinely have a diminutive pudendum, don't you?
Reply 75
Pretty Boy
Seriously, you'd be cool with your boyfriend using a butt plug?
Yes, why not?
Reply 76
Apricot Fairy
Yes, but that genuinely IS disgusting....
Using them either on your own or with a partner to enhance your sex life is not sleazy at all. You have genuine issues. Maybe you're just worried that she will compare the size of her dildo to the size of your penis?
Using them either on your own or with a partner to enhance your sex life is not sleazy at all. You have genuine issues. Maybe you're just worried that she will compare the size of her dildo to the size of your penis?
Must admit, Im by no means small, but I wouldnt like any vibrators/dildos my girl used to be bigger than me (and you can buy some painfully big looking ones). So Im going to get her vibrator for her as a present. But vibrators are better for clitoral stimulation than penetrative use anyway.
Reply 77
Pretty Boy
I don't like rubber fetish clothing, I dont like butt plugs, I dont like pvc stuff, I dont like vibrators, I don't like dildos, whips, gimp suits or any of that sorta stuff.
I just like normal good girls with good personalities and thats it.
I just like normal good girls with good personalities and thats it.
You are missing out, but if you want to have only boring unimaginative vanilla sex that is up to you. Personally I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend, spank and cane her. She got me a paddle to use on her for my birthday!
Reply 78
Pretty Boy
I don't like rubber fetish clothing, I dont like butt plugs, I dont like pvc stuff, I dont like vibrators, I don't like dildos, whips, gimp suits or any of that sorta stuff.
I just like normal good girls with good personalities and thats it.
I just like normal good girls with good personalities and thats it.
Oh what, so a good girl with a good personality has to have boring sex for her whole life? And anyway, some of the vibrators you can buy are incredibly innocent looking things, which couldn't be further removed from the stuff you're talking about.
Reply 79
20
Pretty Boy
blah, blah, stfu.^o)
Which is to say, you have a small penis; or, at least, that you suffer acute insecurity in respect of your 'wang'.
Clearly, the notion that a woman might emulate sex; that she might derive sole gratification by means of 'objects' intended to simulate phallic penetration, offends you: because, so far as you're concerned, entering into a relationship with such a woman (and all that entails) would only concentrate your inadequacy. Indeed, the prospect of sex with her is something which you find inherently terrifying: if a dildo can pleasure her to orgasm, it stands to reason that the male genitalia per se will assume a greater baseline significance than were she the sort of girl for whom 'sex' entails a more wholistic approach; there is a concordant expectation, subject to which your comparatively meagre endowment is that much more likely to be deemed 'sub-par'.
Of course, I've no way of verifying this; but it is, nevertheless, an intriguing hypothesis.
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