A simple question . .

There's a girl i like.

She's inexperienced/shy and wants to take things one step at a time.
We havnt known each other long - i want to get her a small gift that expresses feelings but isnt too intimidating.

Recommendations?

Reply 1

hitmanuk2k

Well what step are we currently on?

Reply 2

Apricot Fairy

A small teddy bear? It's cheesy and unoriginal, but it'll probably work like a charm.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Early stages - as in i like her and i think she likes me.
Thats why it has to be something small.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

A small teddy bear? It's cheesy and unoriginal, but it'll probably work like a charm.

Didnt think of that thanks :smile:

Reply 5

rosetinted

Difficult to recommend something without knowing her. I was given a cute little friendship bracelet one time. Really non-intimidating, cheap but let me know he liked me. I thought it was cute! If she wears beaded bracelets and stuff like that you could get her a few of those as well.

The nicest gift I ever received was some home made chocolates & candies from my boyfriend at the time. He'd really taken the time to make them nicely, drizzling white chocolate in little lines over the top to make them look nice. It was a really nice gift on a very tight budget.

Reply 6

hitmanuk2k

Anonymous

Early stages - as in i like her and i think she likes me.
Thats why it has to be something small.

I'd suggest until you know if she does like you, you don't bother with gifts. They just get rejected :mad:

Reply 7

Ferrus

Anonymous

Don't get a gift yet, just play it along for a while and see where it goes.

Reply 8

Apricot Fairy

My ex got me a little bear when we'd been together 4 days. (Ok, it was my 17th birthday, but still...) We're not together any more, but I brought the bear to uni with me, three years after he gave it to me.

A very small one is a totally harmless gift. I don't like to feel as though guys are chasing me or not giving me enough time or space, but I wouldn't feel pressured by a bear.

Reply 9

Apricot Fairy

Pretty Boy

I say get her something expensive if your gonna get her anything at all.

Thats my experience. (No doubt Apricot Fairy will slaughter me now :p:

)

When my ex left for uni I bought him a tin of spaghetti hoops to eat on his first night catering for himself. It's the little things which mean the most.

An expensive gift early on in a relationship could be very pressuring.

Reply 10

Angelharpist

Rather than buying something, why don't you make her a CD compilation of some of your favourite songs - ones that you think she may like.

It's thoughtful and it's more personal in a way :smile:

Reply 11

El Scotto

Angelharpist

Rather than buying something, why don't you make her a CD compilation of some of your favourite songs - ones that you think she may like.

It's thoughtful and it's more personal in a way :smile: