am i the piece of **** i think i am?

Basically I have a bf, been with him just over a year, but we've been on a "break" since january..our break doesnt involve being with other ppl..
It's been on my mind for a long time to split up as it's not working and its too much work, but then i start thinking about how i love him and i just cant do it.
the other night i met this guy when i was out. nothing happened, because i wouldnt cheat, but he took my number and we've been talking and he wants to take me out on tues. i never told him i had a bf. i know thats awful, but i just couldnt bring myself to, which kinda tells me something bout my rel i guess. anyway, he wants to take me out on tues and i think i kinda agreed and i cant believe id do something like this, it's just not me. i know you're all going to flame me for this, but that's really not what i need. i just don't know what to do about all of it? obv i have to tell this other guy, but i just cant bring myself to :frown:

sorry its long.

Reply 1

q1w2e3r4t5y

You said "i wouldn't cheat," so don't.

Option 1. Tell your boyfriend everything and be honest.
Option 2. Break it off with the other guy and tell him you have a bf.
Option 3. If you really want to see the other guy, tell your boyfriend you want to see other people.

Whatever you do, be honest about it.

Reply 2

rosetinted

If you've been thinking about breaking up with your boyfriend for a while and you've made a date with a new guy then it's definitely time to end your relationship, it's going nowhere.