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Hey Bone-Machine!

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Reply 121
My personal view is that hair is fine as long as it neat and tidy, no spiders legs sticking out etc. Also i don't like it round the lips. Not nice when going down on them. Basically as long as you haven't got a 70's growler you haven't got a problem. More important is that you keep the vloody thing clean cos there is nothing worse than that!!! When you lick it and think it's going to lick you back!!!
Reply 122
this has been taken rediculously far....
1. do what is comfortable for you. not what someone else wants. do what you want and what you feel comfortable with
2. if you dont know what to do then experiment, shave it all off and if you dont like it you can let it grow back and you know not to do it again, you can have a landing strip or you can just keep it well trimmed.

-if someone has it all shaved off then they do if someone doesnt then they dont, why are you attacking people for their own personal preferance?
-you cant narrow it down their preferance to because thats how porn stars have it or because their partner prefers it. yeah so what if their partner prefers it and you are doing it for them, whats wrong with that?
-it shouldnt be assumed that because someone doesnt shave however that it is dirty because its not if you clean well which if your not doing then shaving it all off wont exactly help.
-its nicer for a guy when they go down on you that you do have it trimmed tho because it cant be enjoyable having hair in your mouth can it?

and before someone accuses me of shaving for my partner or whatever. i dont shave although i have tried it and no i didnt like it, it takes loads of maintenance to keep it smooth, i personally dont think it looks that good and i was clean to start off with having no hair didnt make a difference!

*breathes*
Reply 123
phantom
this has been taken rediculously far....
1. do what is comfortable for you. not what someone else wants. do what you want and what you feel comfortable with
2. if you dont know what to do then experiment, shave it all off and if you dont like it you can let it grow back and you know not to do it again, you can have a landing strip or you can just keep it well trimmed.

-if someone has it all shaved off then they do if someone doesnt then they dont, why are you attacking people for their own personal preferance?
-you cant narrow it down their preferance to because thats how porn stars have it or because their partner prefers it. yeah so what if their partner prefers it and you are doing it for them, whats wrong with that?
-it shouldnt be assumed that because someone doesnt shave however that it is dirty because its not if you clean well which if your not doing then shaving it all off wont exactly help.
-its nicer for a guy when they go down on you that you do have it trimmed tho because it cant be enjoyable having hair in your mouth can it?

and before someone accuses me of shaving for my partner or whatever. i dont shave although i have tried it and no i didnt like it, it takes loads of maintenance to keep it smooth, i personally dont think it looks that good and i was clean to start off with having no hair didnt make a difference!

*breathes*


Agreed.
I'm sorry if some people thought I was harsh, but I don't appreciate being shot down in flames for having a different opinion either.
I'm certainly not going to stop saying what I think just because people think it's harsh.
Well I decided last year after going on a ski trip where my two best friends walked around the room naked (they're not lesbians!) and were completely shaved, that I should do the same thing. So I got home and got out the Immac and took it all off, and I quite liked it. I went along merrily trimming it totally bare on regular occassions until Google threw up a picture of a porn picture involving a woman. I was immediately horrified that the woman's bits looked nothing like mine. I stood in front of the full length mirror in my bathroom and saw that my inner labia protruded a bit, not at all like the woman in the picture I saw. I was absolutely petrified that I was abnormal and I thought any guy I would be with would be totally repulsed by this, especially as it is so obvious with all the hair gone. Also whilst we were skiing I was going to say to my friend "I'm freezing my tits off" but for some reason I said "I'm freezing my nether regions off!" and my friend turned around and said "Well, I don't have any bits which could freeze off, and I hope you don't either..." - I was totally gutted and I feel like I'm the only person in the world like this. I still feel really insecure about this area of my body and I partly want to cover up the labia with hair so that they are less visible, but part of me wants to stay shaven because I like it better. I prefer shaven because of the general feeling of cleanliness especially during my period, and the fact that I feel fresher for longer after a shower, but I am still worried about what a guy will say when he sees the inner lips.

My contribution on the discussion is don't do anything you don't want to do to your pubic hair, and if you are really bothered about what your b/f will think, ask him before you get so intimate for him to have seen that area. You can then choose to have your 'do like his preference, or you can keep it the way you like. If a guy does not want to be with you because of your choice of pubic hairstyle then you deserve better.
Reply 125
pendragon
Preference:

1) Brazillian Wax :biggrin:

2) Shaven Haven (the whole lot shaven off) :smile:

3) Shaven the whole lot, except for a narrow landing strip (or silly shape like a thunderbolt if you develop the skill) above your pussy :p:

4) Shaven back a bit at the bottom of your pussy lips (not really cosmetic, but better for sex) :redface:

5) neatly trimmed :frown:

6) natural :mad:


I go number 3 :biggrin:
I trim, put a thong on and epilate the rest of the hair when I can stand pain and have some spare time or shave the rest. When I was in holiday last year, I shaved it all off and it irritated me, became itchy, but I felt so clean and loved it when I was on my period, so fresh and clean. But it took me ages to take it all off. I dont like pubic hair, but I dont like no hair either, I prefer an inbetween, so thats what I do, a very small shape and close trim, while rest completely off. Waxing/epilating it is great :smile:
Anonymous
Well I decided last year after going on a ski trip where my two best friends walked around the room naked (they're not lesbians!) and were completely shaved, that I should do the same thing. So I got home and got out the Immac and took it all off, and I quite liked it. I went along merrily trimming it totally bare on regular occassions until Google threw up a picture of a porn picture involving a woman. I was immediately horrified that the woman's bits looked nothing like mine. I stood in front of the full length mirror in my bathroom and saw that my inner labia protruded a bit, not at all like the woman in the picture I saw. I was absolutely petrified that I was abnormal and I thought any guy I would be with would be totally repulsed by this, especially as it is so obvious with all the hair gone. Also whilst we were skiing I was going to say to my friend "I'm freezing my tits off" but for some reason I said "I'm freezing my nether regions off!" and my friend turned around and said "Well, I don't have any bits which could freeze off, and I hope you don't either..." - I was totally gutted and I feel like I'm the only person in the world like this. I still feel really insecure about this area of my body and I partly want to cover up the labia with hair so that they are less visible, but part of me wants to stay shaven because I like it better. I prefer shaven because of the general feeling of cleanliness especially during my period, and the fact that I feel fresher for longer after a shower, but I am still worried about what a guy will say when he sees the inner lips.

My contribution on the discussion is don't do anything you don't want to do to your pubic hair, and if you are really bothered about what your b/f will think, ask him before you get so intimate for him to have seen that area. You can then choose to have your 'do like his preference, or you can keep it the way you like. If a guy does not want to be with you because of your choice of pubic hairstyle then you deserve better.


Ermm there is nothing wrong with you dear, seriously, everyones bodies develope in different ways, none of the women ive been with have had identical vaginas, that would just be odd. Perhaps you should look at a few more pictures! Trust me you dont sound abnormal, but if your that concerned seek medical advice, but (although this is just an educated guess) you really have nothing to worry about, vaginas vary in size,and appearance just as much as a penis does.
Angelil
And you don't mind looking like little girls?!

*struggles to understand*


I don't see it this way. The opposite in fact - one of the attractions of being completely smooth is it means my woman's bits are fully exposed, so for instance my bf can instantly see if I'm aroused, rather than have my pussy demurely hidden away behind some hair...
Anonymous
Well I decided last year after going on a ski trip where my two best friends walked around the room naked (they're not lesbians!) and were completely shaved, that I should do the same thing. So I got home and got out the Immac and took it all off, and I quite liked it. I went along merrily trimming it totally bare on regular occassions until Google threw up a picture of a porn picture involving a woman. I was immediately horrified that the woman's bits looked nothing like mine. I stood in front of the full length mirror in my bathroom and saw that my inner labia protruded a bit, not at all like the woman in the picture I saw. I was absolutely petrified that I was abnormal and I thought any guy I would be with would be totally repulsed by this, especially as it is so obvious with all the hair gone. Also whilst we were skiing I was going to say to my friend "I'm freezing my tits off" but for some reason I said "I'm freezing my nether regions off!" and my friend turned around and said "Well, I don't have any bits which could freeze off, and I hope you don't either..." - I was totally gutted and I feel like I'm the only person in the world like this. I still feel really insecure about this area of my body and I partly want to cover up the labia with hair so that they are less visible, but part of me wants to stay shaven because I like it better. I prefer shaven because of the general feeling of cleanliness especially during my period, and the fact that I feel fresher for longer after a shower, but I am still worried about what a guy will say when he sees the inner lips.

My contribution on the discussion is don't do anything you don't want to do to your pubic hair, and if you are really bothered about what your b/f will think, ask him before you get so intimate for him to have seen that area. You can then choose to have your 'do like his preference, or you can keep it the way you like. If a guy does not want to be with you because of your choice of pubic hairstyle then you deserve better.


Hi Anonymous,

I agree with the previous poster that girls' bits do vary from person to person - and that's fine!

More than that, speaking personally and also based on what other guys have said when the conversation has got round to female bodies, far from being repulsive, your labia protruding slightly is actually a big-time turn-on to most blokes.

Look at it this way - I bet you find a guy with a big trouser snake more exciting than one with a tiny one, everything else being the same. Well, we prefer girls' parts that are nice and big and engorged, not thin and tiny.

Trust me, with all the hair off and your lovely parts, I'm sure any normal guy would give anything for a chance to go down on you...:smile:
my boyfriend loves it all off and volunteers alot more often to go down on me, so its all gravy baby...
endisforever
my boyfriend loves it all off and volunteers alot more often to go down on me, so its all gravy baby...


If it looks like gravy down there... well I'm not going down.
Reply 132
Trimmed at the very least. O'natural is a bit....well...
Reply 133
Especially if you want us guys to venture down there...
Talon
O'natural is a bit....well...
Yes?
Reply 135
Messy. Lol.
Reply 136
I have absolutely no body hair except a tuff of pubic hair on my pubic mound. And maybe three hairs in both armpits. I don't know what the heck to do with the hair either. I'm really worried about shaving it because I'm scared it'll itch like crazy when it starts growing back.

And I don't think it takes hair to make a woman feel like a woman. Anyway, I really don't get the whole obsession with hairlessness at all. I mean in asian cultures, pubic hair is totally OK.
^^ So jealous!!!
My sources inform me that it is an urban myth that girls have hair.
i dont know if this has allready been sed because i cba to look throught the *entire* thread, but pubic hair is actually there for a reason. its supposed to provide a cushion to prevent that area rubbing against your partner and make sex easier.

see, yet another pointless peice of info picked up from the tv

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