The Student Room Group
Reply 1
take it easy. let her get her head sorted and bea good friend to her. as a reward if you play your cards well, there'll be a higher chance that she'll go out with you :smile:
If she doesn't want a relationship yet, there's nothing you can do but either wait or move onto someone else.

You certainly can't 'hurry her up'.
Reply 3
I mean more help, on how I can distract my mind .....sorry for not being clear.
No no no! Give her some space... also keep her interested, but do NOT, whetever you do, "be a good friend to her". Trust me, it'll ruin any chance you ever had.
kacas
I mean more help, on how I can distract my mind .....sorry for not being clear.


Hmm... Su Doku?
Reply 6
kacas
I mean more help, on how I can distract my mind .....sorry for not being clear.


well you could try to get attracted to other girls, watch porn a lot even....i don't know to be honest sorry
Reply 7
No no no! Give her some space... also keep her interested, but do NOT, whetever you do, "be a good friend to her". Trust me, it'll ruin any chance you ever had.



Yeah I have learnt that one.
Toy Soldier
No no no! Give her some space... also keep her interested, but do NOT, whetever you do, "be a good friend to her". Trust me, it'll ruin any chance you ever had.

Listen well - these words are full of wisdom and truth. They are, in fact, the main reason I have remained single over the past year... :frown:
Hashshashin
Listen well - these words are full of wisdom and truth. They are, in fact, the main reason I have remained single over the past year... :frown:


Ye olde words of dread: "Oh, but we're such good friends!"

It's like... DAMNIT! I did it again. Another bloody 'friend'. Great :frown:. Heh.
whatever you do....DO NOT....i repeat DO NOT get her drunk and tap her tight a**....wait a second....isn't that why ALL boys "get to know" girls?

on a more serious note if she one of those cliched space girls, forget bout that biatch
Toy Soldier
Ye olde words of dread: "Oh, but we're such good friends!"

It's like... DAMNIT! I did it again. Another bloody 'friend'. Great :frown:. Heh.

I've got serious problems - the whole 'friends first' route is the only one I've got practised and feel confident with.

Unfortunately it never works. :rolleyes:

Although I suppose every cloud has a silver lining - I've become brutally efficient at becoming close friends with and even personal confidents of several girls at school, something many other guys resent. :biggrin:
Hashshashin
I've got serious problems - the whole 'friends first' route is the only one I've got practised and feel confident with.

Unfortunately it never works. :rolleyes:

Although I suppose every cloud has a silver lining - I've become brutally efficient at becoming close friends with and even personal confidents of several girls at school, something many other guys resent. :biggrin:


Of course you can be friends with a girl first, just not CLOSE friends. That's when they start seeing you as 'a brother' - or worse - 'one of the girls' :eek:
Reply 13
Toy Soldier
Ye olde words of dread: "Oh, but we're such good friends!"

It's like... DAMNIT! I did it again. Another bloody 'friend'. Great :frown:. Heh.


So true.
isn't "i don't want to risk spoiling our friendship" just girl code for "No thanks, you're butterz"?

on a more serious note give her an ultimatum, that always works for me, i say always, ive never had a serious relationship in my life...

on a note that is ACTUALLY serious, if u really like her just stick it out until shes ready and enjoy every second of the chase, i say chase, it could well be more of a crawl....
Scienceboi
isn't "i don't want to risk spoiling our friendship" just girl code for "No thanks, you're butterz"?


Only if you're not really good friends at all. If you did have a chance with a girl but then got to close (i.e. the friendship becomes 'close' rather than 'flirtatious'), the chance is gooone.
Reply 16
on a more serious note give her an ultimatum, that always works for me, i say always, ive never had a serious relationship in my life...


Can you explain this please?
I dont understand :redface: