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Errrm I don't really know how to put this. Basically when I 'pleasure myself' i can usually make myself orgasm in less than a minute - is this normal? i'm a virgin and im worried that when i do do it with a guy i'll be finished before he's even got going!

Reply 1

beecher

2

It doesn't have to stop at one.

Reply 2

Toy Soldier

3

Do you get hypersensitive? If not, then is it really a problem? Heh, just find a guy who's also a virgin, he'll be happy not to last longer than a minute :p:

Reply 3

Né Stig

15

I'm sure the virgin who will be a willing participant won't last long either first time :biggrin:

As relationships develop, sex will get a little more time consuming.
That is one thing you should really not be worried about :smile:

Reply 4

kizer

15

Anonymous

Errrm I don't really know how to put this. Basically when I 'pleasure myself' i can usually make myself orgasm in less than a minute - is this normal? i'm a virgin and im worried that when i do do it with a guy i'll be finished before he's even got going!

I really thought you were a boy before I got to the 'do it with a guy' part - generally this is a problem guys have!

Absolutely no need to worry:

1) The guy won't be able to pleasure you like you can, so you won't cum as quickly - he won't know his way round you....

2) .... and I assume you're talking about sex, in which case your clitoris won't be stimulated much anyway, and vaginal orgasms take more time to occur (hence why guys lasting is really the issue!).

3) You're a girl and therefore have the capability to keep going, and enjoy it!

4) You are in fact lucky to be able to cum easily - a much more common problem is not being able to cum at all.

So really I think you are in fact blessed rather than cursed!

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

I know its possible to have multiples, but i dont really know how to do it :confused:

And I do get really sensitive after...

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

I have the same thing, I thought I was abnormal! I tend to orgasm really quickly when with myself rather than with my bf and I think I'm also really sensitive too.

Reply 7

Scienceboi

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Anonymous

Errrm I don't really know how to put this. Basically when I 'pleasure myself' i can usually make myself orgasm in less than a minute - is this normal? i'm a virgin and im worried that when i do do it with a guy i'll be finished before he's even got going!

If only all girls had this problem.....

Reply 8

kizer

15

Anonymous

I know its possible to have multiples, but i dont really know how to do it :confused:

And I do get really sensitive after...

Take it slow, relax, and it won't take long before it feels good again. Also gives the guy a break, which if he is a virgin is a good thing!

Reply 9

MNBStyle

9

I dont think its a problem, you should see it as a good thing i say

Reply 10

beecher

2

Anonymous

And I do get really sensitive after...

You could try switching positions, to have a "refractory period" of sorts.

Reply 11

kizer

15

Scienceboi

If only all girls had this problem.....

see what I mean?

Trust me your boyfriend will REALLY like being able to get you off more easily, it doesn't feel good at all when you can't get your gf to cum.

*ahem* not that that ever happened to me - my friend, you know...

Reply 12

Clarence

14

Tease yourself, drag it out.

Reply 13

Mr Flintstone

Take it slow. When you feel you're about to go just stop and do something else for a couple of seconds, then get at it again. Get to that threshold then back away from it.

Works for guys anyway...

Reply 14

mipmapped

13

Relax, don't do it, when you want to go to it.

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