Tell her your ther every step of the way, thats why i'd do
So sorry to hear this. Just be there for her to listen if she wants to talk and make sure she does all the practical things -pregnancy test at earliest opportunity etc
i want to thank you all for your advice, i kinda feel like im helping more than i did before if that makes sense im just waiting for her boyfriend to pick me up bacause she wants to talk to us about the pros and cons of reporting it- and as for those of you who have said about him doing it to other people he put one of his ex girlfriends in hospital as he thought she was cheating on him so it wasnt a one of and it cant be allowed to go on
why do so many people state "go to the police" as an immidiate response to all rape related threads, its not always that simple.
It might help for her to contact some of the rape crisis helplines, as they have people trained to help with this kind of thing, or perhaps a counseller who can help her talk through her problems. you might feel helpless now, but remember that for her to tell you took a lot, but also that she must consider you a good friend to be able to trust you, so don't doubt your capabilities as a friend. just be there for her as much as you can, and like you said you would, support her through this difficult time
Since you and her boyfriend are the only ones who know about it, reassure her that you can work this out together, and will find the best way forward for her. Like people have been saying it is most important to remind her that she is not alone in this, and that people care for her. Best wishes to her and yourself.
well we spoke to her last night and she has decided to go and have some counselling and she knows its going to be hard and that me and her boyfriend are going to with her everystep of the way but we cant deal with it for her.