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guys&girls read:any advice/opinions/ideas gr8ly appreciated
this situation is all a bit complicated and a little hard to describe but hopefully this thread will make some sort of sense...
basically there's this guy I really like. I met him over a year ago. We've been quite good friends since. Come August 2005 we suddenly got really close - i've no idea where it all came from and when I was over at his at a party of his things got closer and we ended up going to second my way... I've always bin in touch with him since, talking a load, but only got to see him occassionally. Then when I was over at his again at the end of january stuff happened, we got close again and we went to second again both ways.
sometimes I think things are really good between us and I wonder if he's interested in taking things further and whether or not he's interested in gf/bf way ... then sometimes i get the impression he's not - like he seems a bit 'off' or sumthing.
quite a few questions and appeals for help/advice come from this whole scenario; first of all, although I probably haven't explained the situation v well, is there any way of tellling for sure if he's interested?
2) since we're not bf/gf, do u reckon he thinks i'm almost a 'shag' buddy? I really dont want that but do u think that by going to second with him twice i've lost all self respect??
3) although i really like him and kinda want bf/gf situation, I worry that he's not up for it. when i'm with him sometimes I feel great and really can trust him and be totally honest with him, and then other times i dno what to say to him (like my mind just goes blank) but want to avoid those awkward silent moments.. do u reckon that if we took it to bf/gf situation this would improve i.e. we could find it easier to talk about nething or do u think that all has to be there b4 a bf/gf relationship?
really sorry for such a long thread, but any advice/opinions would be welcome...
basically there's this guy I really like. I met him over a year ago. We've been quite good friends since. Come August 2005 we suddenly got really close - i've no idea where it all came from and when I was over at his at a party of his things got closer and we ended up going to second my way... I've always bin in touch with him since, talking a load, but only got to see him occassionally. Then when I was over at his again at the end of january stuff happened, we got close again and we went to second again both ways.
sometimes I think things are really good between us and I wonder if he's interested in taking things further and whether or not he's interested in gf/bf way ... then sometimes i get the impression he's not - like he seems a bit 'off' or sumthing.
quite a few questions and appeals for help/advice come from this whole scenario; first of all, although I probably haven't explained the situation v well, is there any way of tellling for sure if he's interested?
2) since we're not bf/gf, do u reckon he thinks i'm almost a 'shag' buddy? I really dont want that but do u think that by going to second with him twice i've lost all self respect??
3) although i really like him and kinda want bf/gf situation, I worry that he's not up for it. when i'm with him sometimes I feel great and really can trust him and be totally honest with him, and then other times i dno what to say to him (like my mind just goes blank) but want to avoid those awkward silent moments.. do u reckon that if we took it to bf/gf situation this would improve i.e. we could find it easier to talk about nething or do u think that all has to be there b4 a bf/gf relationship?
really sorry for such a long thread, but any advice/opinions would be welcome...
Way to drag up a really old thread. 
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