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Feelings

hi!

met this girld in yr11 as a mate. we got along like we known each other for years. never have i ever been really close to girls as mates as i have been with this one. our relationship as friends was one like we hug n stuff, talk to eachother about anything in the world. Was really good!

Well, come end of GCSE's she decides she wants to go to another 6th form. im depressed but i say to her 'good luck well keep in touch' . Might i say i did fancy her from this stage on.

we talked during the long summer holiday break. but as the opening of school came closer we talked less. To an extent it was my fault as i didnt realise the great friendship i had with her.

now im in upper sixth. i have really great feeling about her. cant get her outta ma head. once in a bluemoon she comes online and i get so happy but then she goes n im sad. :frown:

to yall out there who have had this type of feeling. what shall i do. Shall i tell her how i feel or should i leave it as it is and hope my feelings will go. should i try n get in contact with her. So confused.

plz help.CHEERZ!

Reply 1

Tell her, if you don't you know you will regret it for a long time. anyway what is the worst that can happen? she doesnt like you and then you move on. fear of the unknown is the worst so you might aswell find out.

Reply 2

i kinda got the same feelings for a guy in know. I'm not in totally the same position as you as I'm still in contact with the guy. Loadsa times I talk to him I feel great and am so happy then when he goes i'm sad etc etc. My case is probably a bit different to yours but in my opinion and in my case I just wish the guy I know would tell me exactly what he's feeling just so I know where I stand. do u hav ne idea how she feels? if I were you I'd talk to her about it, let her know how you feel. then at least both you and her know where you stand.

Reply 3

Anonymous
i kinda got the same feelings for a guy in know. I'm not in totally the same position as you as I'm still in contact with the guy. Loadsa times I talk to him I feel great and am so happy then when he goes i'm sad etc etc. My case is probably a bit different to yours but in my opinion and in my case I just wish the guy I know would tell me exactly what he's feeling just so I know where I stand. do u hav ne idea how she feels? if I were you I'd talk to her about it, let her know how you feel. then at least both you and her know where you stand.

yeah i sorta know how she feels.
My mates once told me, cos they were in one of her classes, that if she had the option if she wasent going out with her current bf then she would of gone out with me.
She is a real diamond!

Reply 4

Anonymous
hi!

met this girld in yr11 as a mate. we got along like we known each other for years. never have i ever been really close to girls as mates as i have been with this one. our relationship as friends was one like we hug n stuff, talk to eachother about anything in the world. Was really good!

Well, come end of GCSE's she decides she wants to go to another 6th form. im depressed but i say to her 'good luck well keep in touch' . Might i say i did fancy her from this stage on.

we talked during the long summer holiday break. but as the opening of school came closer we talked less. To an extent it was my fault as i didnt realise the great friendship i had with her.

now im in upper sixth. i have really great feeling about her. cant get her outta ma head. once in a bluemoon she comes online and i get so happy but then she goes n im sad. :frown:

to yall out there who have had this type of feeling. what shall i do. Shall i tell her how i feel or should i leave it as it is and hope my feelings will go. should i try n get in contact with her. So confused.

plz help.CHEERZ!

Ask her out. To be honest you haven't got long mate before you go your seperate ways to university. Make the most of the time you've got now. The balls in your court and if you don't do anything about it, it's you're own fault.