If you want to experiment and bond, why not go the pub in drag.
Nah seriously, go for it.. hell you might even enjoy it. But tis going to get akward, expect a lot of .. damm ive seen that persons penis.. or.. damm i heard that girl scream my name as i pounded her looks a lot.
Do it. But only if you're all very beautiful, artistic intellectuals at Oxbridge (preferably Cambridge) and have some very dark and somewhat repressed fetishes and are open to either sex. Also if you could perform some frenzied Dionysian dance rituals beforehand, after which sex is the only possible suitable culmination, that would be even better. Hmm, then one of you could realise the futile nature of empty casual sex and fall into a fit of horrendous, but creatively fertile, depression. Then he/she can dedicate the resulting poetry collection (naturally detailing the orgies) to me. Fantastic.
If everyone in the group is comfortable with it then why not? Though I don't think it should be something you do just because you can. I think i like the idea of it, but don't think i could go through with it personally. But its all experience. If everyone were to feel awkward afterwards then what would you do? But then again, there might not be awkwardness and it would be a fun experience... hmm... guess i don't know where i stand on this one..
I think I'd like to... but I'd be scared to...
I can't say I wouldn't, cos I would.
Almost everyone here is just talking out of their arse. That's the danger of such forums. The vast majority of people who have replied have no experience with this kind of situation and quite a few, have never had sex.
There's a huge difference between "group sex", "orgy" and "gang b***" as someone put it so nicely. The dynamics of it all are very different. In an orgy, everyone abandons themselves and has sex with everyone there "as equals". It also makes a difference whether how many girls, guys are there... Group sex can involve 3 or 4 people, that's not an orgy.
Don't forget that for a lot of guys, seeing a girl have sex with several guys is a turn-on because the girl is dominated and in a way, she appears slutty. Be careful, because this might just be a matter of guys taking advantage of a girl they see as being a bit easy and then just looking down on her. Two female friends I know have been in that situation and every time, it was a matter of guys having a laugh about what "a slut" the girl was. It created horrible reputations for them.
Another group of "friends" who likened themselves to players and prided themselves about how they treated their girlfriends like *****es, used to swap girlfriends between them. Of course the girls, who were only teenagers at the time, probably thought it was just a bit of fun and didn't make them sluts but in the eyes of the guys, who then told everyone, they were just stupid sluts.
Thank god, this doesn't happen every time but you have to understand the dynamics behind it all and that the way you will see eachother will change dramatically, depending on who is involved
This is the kind of experience which will make you realise that sex is never just sex.
To the original poster, who are the people you were planning to do it with? How many guys? How many girls?
Why is it that most guys would happily accept a situation with two girls but not one with two guys? Especially since most girls wouldn't mind two girls?
(Yes I know I'm generalizing so I don't need any complaints about how this isn't true for all guys or girls.)