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i am 15 years old and i am in the 11th grade. the problem with me is that i just cant talk to girls and even if i do it is about studies any way to pvercome this????
Desperately need advice !!!!!!!!
Desperately need advice !!!!!!!!
You need confidence. Do you have any girlfriends, as it were? Like girl mates? If so, then just talk to them naturally, and if not, I'd start with less attractive girls as often us guys are less intimidated by them, but not always as that would be a whapping generalisation, but just say 'Hi' to girls and say 'how are you?', or 'good weekend?'- just to get them chatting- they're not an alien species and they're nice really! 
And once you've done that the world's your oyster and who knows where it may take you!
And once you've done that the world's your oyster and who knows where it may take you!
erm the same way u would talk to boys? dont worry if they fancy u they will generally let u know 
sounds like u do need some female friends tho
sounds like u do need some female friends thoWell yea i dont have any female friends ... it is sad
but the thing is that i cvant seem to connect with them the way others do i am always consicious of what i say like choose my words
but the thing is that i cvant seem to connect with them the way others do i am always consicious of what i say like choose my words
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Well yea i dont have any female friends ... it is sad
but the thing is that i cvant seem to connect with them the way others do i am always consicious of what i say like choose my words
but the thing is that i cvant seem to connect with them the way others do i am always consicious of what i say like choose my words
That can be a good thing, but then you can have too much of a good thing, try and just be natural with them- you may freek them out if you're a bit edgy around them and believe me, they don't like to feel like they're unapprochable! (In my experience anyway). If there's some girls in your class that you work well with, then just try chatting to them about other things? Surely you've had a time when you've been paired off with someone to do some research or essay writing or something and you really can't be arsed to do it so you just chat about whatever with them? It does work, believe me!
Anonymous
i am 15 years old and i am in the 11th grade. the problem with me is that i just cant talk to girls and even if i do it is about studies any way to pvercome this????
Desperately need advice !!!!!!!!
Desperately need advice !!!!!!!!
Go and get drunk, you wont give a toss about how you talk to girls then, you'll just do it, they'll pick up the fact you're drunk and you'll probably get sex in the process
Markus
Go and get drunk, you wont give a toss about how you talk to girls then, you'll just do it, they'll pick up the fact you're drunk and you'll probably get sex in the process
erm how will that help him get laid?? lets face it a guys not at his best when hes drunk. i prefer my men still able to perform to the best of their abilities and im sure most women agree
and to the OP just dont worry about it girls dont bite (unless asked) and it will get better in time. if u want to pm me then u will have an online female friend at least.
Girl's aren't that different (obviously there are differences, but don't let this distract you) - just talk to them like anybody else, and use the mindset of them not being any different, whilst considering their differences, if you know what I mean. I have many female friends, in fact more than male friends I would say, and most girls say I can talk on "their plane", which is because I simply act naturally (obviously, some people share more traits of the opposite sex than others, but not to an extreme extent most of the time). However, don't assume that being able to talk to girls will make them attracted to you, my attraction level is 0.0000...
Yeah, don't TRY to get a girl to like you. If you don't, then they will. If you do, they won't. It's just a law!
i like to spk to ppl as if i've known them for a while, even if i've hardly spoken to them ever - its just being friendly and can't possibly do any harm!
And just hang out at all social events and you will meet someone...
i like to spk to ppl as if i've known them for a while, even if i've hardly spoken to them ever - its just being friendly and can't possibly do any harm!
And just hang out at all social events and you will meet someone...
I think your problem is stemming from mainly lack of confidence in yourself. Although you have the option of trying all the above suggestions which are all wonderful in their own way, why not take up some form of martial arts? Because by doing martial arts you will actually learn a lot about yourself and become confident by strengthening your weaknesses both mentally and physically. You will find that you will not be afraid of certain things any more including socialising with people specially really really hot girls!
If you are already doing this then disregard my advice but I personally benefited from such and believe with all the hidden power inside you, you will feel like you are jet li on a mission every day and physical strength and purity of mind is what will drive good relations with hot babes both, as just good mates and more. But, be modest and don't go around telling people how hard you are (i.e. if you do take it up) and let your mates do the talking!
BTW my above suggestion is very much applicable to any girls in similar situations as well.
If you are already doing this then disregard my advice but I personally benefited from such and believe with all the hidden power inside you, you will feel like you are jet li on a mission every day and physical strength and purity of mind is what will drive good relations with hot babes both, as just good mates and more. But, be modest and don't go around telling people how hard you are (i.e. if you do take it up) and let your mates do the talking!
BTW my above suggestion is very much applicable to any girls in similar situations as well.
Talk to girls you don't fancy...but think are nice people try to become friendly with them. You will then become comfortabloe around girls
Rather than launching straight into a full blown conversation, build your way up to this. For example, adding an extra 'thank you' to a cashier whilst shopping, will be a building block for you to build your confidence upon. It does take time, but even if you say something really silly to them, would it honestly be the worst situation in your life?
You'll get there eventually, don't worry.
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You'll get there eventually, don't worry.
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Markus
Go and get drunk, you wont give a toss about how you talk to girls then, you'll just do it, they'll pick up the fact you're drunk and you'll probably get sex in the process
Gotta disagree there m8, still depends on the type of girl... if they don't like you sobre they won't like you drunk.
Anonymous
i am 15 years old and i am in the 11th grade. the problem with me is that i just cant talk to girls and even if i do it is about studies any way to pvercome this????
Desperately need advice !!!!!!!!
Desperately need advice !!!!!!!!
Don't worry about it too much, the more time you spend with them the less you'll make this distinction between talking to girls and talking to guys.
Everytime you want to talk to them remind yourself that you probably aren't going to actually make a bad impression unless you do something really outrageous and loopy. Then you should be fine, if you're just laid back and relaxed.
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