A girl...aarrrgghhh

Hello people. I think I just need some one to talk to about something...sorry if this will bore some of you :smile:

Anyway, right now there is a girl on my course who I think I quite like, but I'm completely unsure whether she likes me in anyway.

Our course means that large amounts of time is spent away from university and for the last couple of weeks I've organised a meet up of people on the course based around the times this girl could make it.

But after both nights the girl texted me to thank me for organising the night...the only person to do so. In fact she texted me during the week too to request I organise the second meet up too.

Now there were things in the texts that I feel might indicate that she might like me, but I also fear that it could just be me looking for signs where there are none. To be honest I've no idea really :frown:

I'm just unsure what to do now....I'm really not that experienced in these sorts of things and always worry about making a fool of myself (this has happened to me in the past and my last relationship ended over 2 and a half years ago and sort of seriously knocked my confidence). I should probably try to talk to her probably, but I'm not sure how or anything. The only option I see is to get the group out again, but then I can see me not actually trying to talk to her at all again.... :frown:

Sorry again guys for this long, stupid post :smile:

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

What kind of signs are you talking about?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Nothing too major, just smiley faces which I've rarely received in texts from anyone and not from her before.

I've also been unsure if she has been using the word 'you' as being about just me or the whole group in things like 'it was good to see you' as she has also used 'you all'....

I guess I'm just really confused and all this probably means nothing at all.

Reply 3

Vampyrcorn

14

Anonymous

Hello people. I think I just need some one to talk to about something...sorry if this will bore some of you :smile:

Anyway, right now there is a girl on my course who I think I quite like,
:smile:

You don't sound overly keen yourself...

Hmmm. Possibly it'd be best to ask her out again as a group, or at least with a couple of other people but it needn't be everyone. That way you won't embarrass yourself. And then when you're out you can try and talk to her face to face to figure out just what she's thinking. I wouldn't make a move just based on a few texts, although she may like you, it'd probably be safer that way.

Reply 4

Anonymous #3

why dont u just ask her. I know it's not easy, u can get one of your mate, who knows her, to check it out for u. But i think the best is to find it out by yourself.

You can wait a month or two and see properly if she does like u or not.

Reply 5

rosetinted

2

I'd say smileys are rather thin grounds for thinking someone fancies you. As for possible different meanings of the word 'you'..again you're probably reading something into nothing. Rather than trying to read meaning into a text have a good chat to her next time you see her, or better still ask the girl out!

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

i think she problbly likes u as well cos if she doesn't why els would she txt u if she's not your friend (i mean mates that know each other well).I'll not txt any guy that i don't really know well.

Reply 7

her0n

11

I use smilies a lot of the time, personally I think if she wants you to find the signs, she'll try and make them obvious! Also something to note is that a lot of girls will put a 'x' at the end of the text regardless of who they speak to.. but then there are also others who only put that when they talk to someone they quite like/love. If you're on the same course then you'll have lots of opportunities to contact her about.. 'work'.. and stuff right? :wink:

her0n

I use smilies a lot of the time, personally I think if she wants you to find the signs, she'll try and make them obvious! Also something to note is that a lot of girls will put a 'x' at the end of the text regardless of who they speak to.. but then there are also others who only put that when they talk to someone they quite like/love. If you're on the same course then you'll have lots of opportunities to contact her about.. 'work'.. and stuff right? :wink:

Lol, yep a 'x' or three don't always mean much in texts or emails. I have a guy friend who places then at the end of every text and email...it was quite funny the first few times I saw them.... :biggrin:

A girl...aarrrgghhh

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