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i just found out

that one of my old mates is pregnant, her boyfriend keeps trying to punch her in the stomach and drug her so she loses it!!

and has treated her badly,

i feel bad for being arsy with her the other day, about not wanting to talk to me,
i want to help her, we've not seen eye to eye excatly and we did get on when we were mates anyway,

what if she kops it when she finds out i know, well its displayed on her email she sent to me,

i dunno what to do!!

theres not much i can do is there as i have no contact numbers, dunt even know where she lives now!!
Reply 1
Talk to her. See what she needs you to do.
Reply 2
i did say if she needed anyone then my other mate should give her my number,

even though we didn;t get on, i hate to hear about my mates, old mates, people i have known in past, have terrible things happen to them, and i really would feel bad if she lost that child, and i did nothing to help her, even if she won't let me help her ill try and do something, no woman should have to put up with that should they, and this is the time when all three of us me and my other mate, club together to do everything we can,

i dunt want to make myself sound like i think i am a miracle worker, im defo not lol!!
Reply 3
Why don't you phone the police? Print off the email and show it to them.
Reply 4
oh sorry i was ment to say email profile that she is preganant and someone else told me about the rest of it!!
Reply 5
I would try and talk to her but how stubborn can she be?

I only ask because some women in these situations become really stubborn when they are offered help because they feel that they can change the partner and thats why they stay with them!
Reply 6
to be honest she has always fallen for every guy and fallen hard for them, there would be no budging,

how can you excuse that kind of reaction, fair enough if he accident kicked her in her sleep but not on purpose that is boarding on pyscho path surely, i wouldn;t stand for it,

she is stubborn but is to nice to stand up for herself!! when i had a row with her about 2 years ago she just stood there and took all i said and cried, wouldn't fight back,

i dunt know if she wants me to help, surely she should do the most logical and senisble thing, forgetting about her feelings for him and starting to see what will be best for that baby!!
Reply 7
Call the police or social services. What he is doing is illegal.
Reply 8
brimstone1
Call the police or social services. What he is doing is illegal.


Really?
Anonymous
that one of my old mates is pregnant, her boyfriend keeps trying to punch her in the stomach and drug her so she loses it!!

and has treated her badly,

i feel bad for being arsy with her the other day, about not wanting to talk to me,
i want to help her, we've not seen eye to eye excatly and we did get on when we were mates anyway,

what if she kops it when she finds out i know, well its displayed on her email she sent to me,

i dunno what to do!!

theres not much i can do is there as i have no contact numbers, dunt even know where she lives now!!

so that would basically be GBH/ABH then...
Tell the cops. They may need to look at your computer, i dunno I'm not a computer expert, but its possible for them to trace the IP address and find out where the e-mail was sent from. Sorry about your're friend and I hope you can help her soon :frown:
Ok this guy needs locking up because what he is doing is awful why they do this i do not know, ask for the girl she needs help becuase i don't know what the hell she see's in him and ask for fighting back why aint she doing that now she's given in to him.
Reply 12
morningtheft
Obviously physical abuse is illegal...


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Call the damn police!
Trouble is that the police aren't exactly good at protecting the victims.
Reply 15
Carl... police protection is something you should read up on.