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I'm dating my teacher...

ok so basically the title is self-explanatory. So, I've been with this teacher now for about a month and you know its so great. I really love him more than I've loved anyone before. But, we have to keep our relationship a secret and it's sooo annoying having to be all secretive and having to hide our feelings from everyone and act normal. Once I've left college, it will all be ok, but I'm thinking that he'll get fed up soon of having to keep it a secret and find someone else... there's only like 4/5months left, do you think it will last that time. And I know you will all be thinking oh nooo big mistake but i really really love him so much. I'm 17 and hes...*cough* 39...

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Reply 1
dont teachers who have relationships with students go to jail?
Y'know before I started reading these forums I thought these sort of things only happened in soap operas...
Reply 3
he's a creep. don't believe what he's told you bout love
Reply 4
blatant paedophile
Reply 5
Chi3f
dont teachers who have relationships with students go to jail?


that's why we're keeping it a secret...
I know a girl who started going out with a teacher in her final months of sixth form. They kept it quiet and now they're married - she's 25 and they've been together years.
Reply 7
Don't you realise that there's a good reason why it's illegal...?!
Reply 8
so announcing it here wouldnt be wise
Reply 9
Chi3f
blatant paedophile



he's notttt. ahhhh um. hes really lovely u no and I CAN tell that he likes me. dunno bout love but u no. He's really not like that at all. We both didn't want this to happen, but it just did and theres nothing we can do now. well there is. but we dont want to split up
Reply 10
wait, your 17 but you joined TSR in 1970?
hahaha
Reply 12
hes really lovely u no and I CAN tell that he likes me


likes you in what way?
Reply 13
or is that cos you posted as anon so it randomly gives you a join date, post count etc?
Reply 14
If she's 17, it's not illegal. The teacher would however definitely lose his job if the college found out.
Reply 15
i look forward to reading about this in the newspapers some day

He's abusing a position of trust,how can you ever trust a man if he's done this? It's all well and good now i love him i love him but if he can see a pupil once,he can again.

I'm sure you'll look back on all this and think how silly it all was and i wish you luck
Reply 16
Chi3f
or is that cos you posted as anon so it randomly gives you a join date, post count etc?


just realised anon always shows those stats...
I have a feeling that it is illegal as she isn't yet 18, a real adult in the eyes of the law where someone could be deemed to have influence over you eg doctor teacher........
If it isn't illegal....the school might have a problem with it if they found out, he might have a clause in his contract banning this sort of behaviour you dont want his record tarnished.
Reply 18
Y'know before I started reading these forums I thought these sort of things only happened in soap operas...


actually its well common!!! i can think of at least five students from my old school and they're only the ones i know about one was underage at the time
i met up with an old mate who stayed there for sixth form and she told me one teacher had gone to rehab for sex addiction she slept with 3 pupils

not a reflection on the OP though im sure his intensions are good just be careful, is he married?
Reply 19
anjimcflanji
I have a feeling that it is illegal as she isn't yet 18, a real adult in the eyes of the law where someone could be deemed to have influence over you eg doctor teacher........
If it isn't illegal....the school might have a problem with it if they found out, he might have a clause in his contract banning this sort of behaviour you dont want his record tarnished.


16 is the legal age of sex end of. a 99 year old could have sex with a 16 year old and it would be legal, if extremely weird