The Student Room Group

girls

ok i've not had a gf since like 10 and now i'm 17 - 18 in like 3 and a bit months - probably because i had lots of socially unacceptable spots during mid-teens but they are virtually all gone now . also i amen't the most confident and social person - everyone likes me at school - i am probably like the only person who nobody hates but this is because i barely speak and so don't have the opportunity to upset them.
anyways so there is this girl who i've known for like 8 years - tlkd to her for the first time like 1yyr and a few months ago and things have sort of got us getting a lot closer - anyway she isn't at my school so she doeasn't know i amen't too great socially and also it's weird because i can talk so openly to her and feel more relaxed in her presence than in my family's! anyway i just don't know how to ask a girl out - i've never done it - it's always the girl who asked me out and they were all really confident whereas this girl is almost as shy as me - furthermore if she said yes i have no ideas what to do - do u kiss her then and there - do u arrange a first date - if so where to???
all help appreciated!
well if there's a girl you like, get to know her first before thinking about dating, usually the girls you are more comfortable with are the one's you have a better chance with.