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Feelings

I have feelings for my female friend. I do like boys, and i think this might be just because i am single at the moment, and i need to feel something. I don't really want a relationship with her, i'm just really confused i think.

Help!

Reply 1

Kittycat

maybe u should wait awhile and see if your feelings get stronger or whatever. If they don't then u can just carry on as normal, if they do then u should talk to her about it. How old are you?

Reply 2

high priestess fnord

define "have feelings". if its lust then maybe u are just frustrated and bi curious/somewhere along the gay scale.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Its not that i really, really want to kiss her

More i really, really like her. I'm 17

I really don't want to feel this way :frown:

Reply 4

LoveMusic

Maybe its just a phase?

Reply 5

high priestess fnord

Anonymous

Its not that i really, really want to kiss her

More i really, really like her. I'm 17

I really don't want to feel this way :frown:

meh that sucks. never rele felt like that, i do everything on impulse. makes things simpler and even if u do make the odd stupid mistake (like kissing a mate :colondollar:

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Reply 6

La Trampa

Anonymous

Its not that i really, really want to kiss her

More i really, really like her. I'm 17

I really don't want to feel this way :frown:

it could be either of two things, you're bi/lesbian (which isn't a bad thing) or it's just a phase. just remember one thing,girls are more likely to be attracted to other females,it's just how things are. i'm bi,at first when i was attracted to my friends that were girls,i was scared,didn't want it and felt dirty,but it's a part of life,i accept it and it's cool. it could be a phase that you guys are really close now and it feels like you really like her,and if it's a phase,you'll grow out of it.it's ok. it happens to loads of people both male and female :hugs:

if you're still worried about it,you can speak to her about it. she might be feeling the same way or understand how you're feeling.

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

i had feelings for a few female friends when i was about 14/15. i found that it was a phase, as since then i've never had a crush on a girl again, and in fact the idea really turns my stomach now (i'm now 18). it could just be a phase. i really think you should leave it, as she is your friend and probably won't have the same feelings to reciprocate. if it IS a phase then you'll be glad you did... if it isn't, it is probably better to leave it anyway, as friendships often last much longer than relationships. i think you should wait it out, basically, and see how you feel in a few months.