Unresponsive girl . . .

So basically, i've started seeing somebody and we both know its gona lead to something.
We're both in fulltime work and we see each other once/twice a week. We're both keen to meet up, and enjoy each others company.

But something i've noticed - she seems very cold very often (never really shows emotion/affection, quite often gets embroiled in some internet thing and stops talking to me for ages, and never talks about us as a subject.)

Which is really odd because i know we like each other.
Why is she like this? Any ideas?

Reply 1

Steve Stifler

She got a pulse?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Haha most definitely.
Its something else - like maybe relative relationship experiece is a factor? ^o)

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

But something i've noticed - she seems very cold very often (never really shows emotion/affection, quite often gets embroiled in some internet thing and stops talking to me for ages, and never talks about us as a subject.)

I can be like sometimes. It's a thing, girls sometimes don't want to see too keen. Sometimes I wonder if I'm being overly cold or overly eager. Does she emotion/affection to other people?

Reply 4

Steve Stifler

Not sure mate, possibly just quiet along with inexperienced.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

I can be like sometimes. It's a thing, girls sometimes don't want to see too keen. Sometimes I wonder if I'm being overly cold or overly eager. Does she emotion/affection to other people?

I duno i never much seen her around other ppl ^o)

So its just how she reacts to me to judge it by - not the easiest thing to figure at all.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

Yeah cool sit and relax - will do.

Just want to know if shes gona be like this permanently if you get me?
Like if we get together will she still be totally cold and frequently ignore me and stuff?

Its crossed my mind that maybe shes never had a bf and she doesnt know how to 'give attention' kinda thing :confused:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

And now somebodys gona say 'if you're complaining about her that much, why do you like her?'

Yeah well wish it cud be explained away so easily. I really like her, just i wish she'd kinda be more responsive.

Is there anything i can do to maybe create a reaction - like to see if she will show affection under certain circumstances?

Reply 8

high priestess fnord

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Anonymous

And now somebodys gona say 'if you're complaining about her that much, why do you like her?'

Yeah well wish it cud be explained away so easily. I really like her, just i wish she'd kinda be more responsive.

Is there anything i can do to maybe create a reaction - like to see if she will show affection under certain circumstances?

all that affection and coupley stuff is bloody scarey. it will probly wear off as she gets more comfortable with it.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

all that affection and coupley stuff is bloody scarey. it will probly wear off as she gets more comfortable with it.

Thanks

What i was hoping to hear.
Dont take offence to this, but i dont understand girls one bit.
If someone was to write an users guide to women, it would outsell harry potter and lord of the rings. So get writing somebody.
Nah but seriously, im probly as intimidated by the relationship thing as her (hence why i'm posting here :p: