I've recently met a very nice guy, and having dined (and flirted) with him on a number of occasions, I do feel that there may be some chemistry between us. However, as things stand, it's all very vague, and I feel 'neither here nor there'. Does anyone have any adivce as to how I may be able to exploit this 'potential' without being very overt with him? He's quite reserved so I get the impression that I will have to take the initiaive - but seeing as I see him on a regular basis don't want to do something stupid that will mean I won't be able to face him in the future if all goes wrong.