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Reply 1
You say whatever comes into your head, there arent a fixed set of rules to refer to in situations like this. Gr
Reply 2
Thank you.
Reply 3
Give him a kiss.

Or a blowjob.

Then change the subject.
Reply 4
There's no consolatory phrase really. Thank you and a peck on the cheek doesn't quite cut it i'm afraid. Don't know what you can really say...

Maybe your unknowingly giving out signals which make them think you like them? :redface: i dunno...
Reply 5
dont do what i did and drunkenly laugh...... well it had only been 4 days and it was my birthday. how the hell was i meant to know the boy meant it?!

otherwise it's a kiss or a "mmmmmmm...?"
Reply 6
Whizz
There's no consolatory phrase really. Thank you and a peck on the cheek doesn't quite cut it i'm afraid. Don't know what you can really say...


How about the lips?

If you think you might feel something similar any time soon, just lie and say 'I love you'. Easy.

If you don't think you'll ever feel it, just lie.
Reply 7
Pretty Boy
How about:

Im sorry (if ur sorry), I don't feel the same way.

Keep it real.


that just makes it sound you dont want him at alllll
If you think you might feel something similar any time soon, just lie and say 'I love you'. Easy.

If you don't think you'll ever feel it, just lie.



That's pretty harsh...
Reply 9
Handy
How about the lips?

If you think you might feel something similar any time soon, just lie and say 'I love you'. Easy.

If you don't think you'll ever feel it, just lie.


Well you could, but you'd be a bit of a cu** if you did.
Reply 10
true
but then why's she with him? to the extent he says i love you anyway
Reply 11
'ur a nice guy but I think it will be better if we are friends'?
Reply 12
ohmygosh i'd just run away.... fast...
Reply 13
Markus
Well you could, but you'd be a bit of a cu** if you did.


Welcome to the world. Everyone's a ****.
Reply 14
Handy
Welcome to the world. Everyone's a ****.


That's a real bitter outlook on life, but yeah, a lot of people are cu**
Reply 15
Pretty Boy
thats not true.


Depends on what you're definition of a person being a c*** is.
Reply 16
Well the first time it happened I'd phoned him up to dump him. We'd only been on like two dates so it's not like we were even going out properly. I was being all sweet and just saying, look I don't think this is gonna work and he was all like 'but I love you and you make me feel ... blah blah' so I was a bit of a bitch and just said 'I don't know why you're telling me this, it doesn't change anything. See ya.' The second time was a couple of years later. I was doing a summer job and he seemed nice enough and made me laugh. We had fun hangin' out and whatever and before I went back to uni he was all 'I love you, you're the dearest thing to me, I'd do anything for you' so yeah I lied and said 'I love you too' and felt pig-sick afterwards. But he kept phoning me at uni and whatever and it was just a summer thing for me and I basically told him I was busy at college and didn't want a long distance relationship. He was totally cut up 'cos he'd been messed around by girls before and was pinning all his hopes on me and I felt like a total cow. So yeah, I need a line people... c'mon!
Reply 17
Pretty Boy
Thats true. Lying like that example is bein one tho.


example?
Reply 18
Anonymous
Well the first time it happened I'd phoned him up to dump him. We'd only been on like two dates so it's not like we were even going out properly. I was being all sweet and just saying, look I don't think this is gonna work and he was all like 'but I love you and you make me feel ... blah blah' so I was a bit of a bitch and just said 'I don't know why you're telling me this, it doesn't change anything. See ya.' The second time was a couple of years later. I was doing a summer job and he seemed nice enough and made me laugh. We had fun hangin' out and whatever and before I went back to uni he was all 'I love you, you're the dearest thing to me, I'd do anything for you' so yeah I lied and said 'I love you too' and felt pig-sick afterwards. But he kept phoning me at uni and whatever and it was just a summer thing for me and I basically told him I was busy at college and didn't want a long distance relationship. He was totally cut up 'cos he'd been messed around by girls before and was pinning all his hopes on me and I felt like a total cow. So yeah, I need a line people... c'mon!


GET CALLER ID!!! or screen your calls. or tell him you're into girls atm. orrrrr just say "dont be daft"
Reply 19
Pretty Boy
the example that handy said to do. I.e. lie there and say it back or whatever.


Oh right yeah, that would make you a cu**, harshest thing in the world to make fun of peoples feelings for another person