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I don't like it when seeing that someone has a boyfriend makes me a bit sad. :/

Hello gays.

I really miss having coursework.

Just dropping that in there.

Ugh - I've gone 4 weeks without getting close to my boyfriend, just being together and relying on Skype to keep up with his life. Cut a long story short he's not out to his gran (who he lives with) and doesn't want to offend her or upset her as he's moving in the next few months, but where we used to go to get close to each other is in plain sight of where she spends most of her time (it's a caravan on his drive and she sits in the window with the curtain open, then with the summer there's the added problem of the curtains being open longer and neighbours being about - one has already 'marked my card' so to speak and we're scared she'll try and out him if she saw us going in there (she's the type!), now I'm looking for a cheap travelodge or something just so we can spend some uninterrupted time together in a loving and close way, something we're both missing terribly and it's getting to me.

We can't really go to my house and be close because of my family - my dad refuses to accept I'm gay (referring to him as my 'mate' and my 'friend'), my mum's fine but she gets awkward (making jokes where they needn't be made) and my sister hates my boyfriend because he's a police officer and is anti-police - she also thought when he was unemployed (constructive dismissal) that he was leeching off me and what little money I'm earning (she didn't know what was going on and made assumptions on what she'd overheard and what vague information she had been told which she chose to relay to all her mates).

I'm really at a loss as to what to do, I love him terribly but I've got no money to spend and I really need to feel his warm body pressed against mine again

The massive war that's happening with the Oxford University LGBTQ soc presidential elections is so entertaining. I don't even need TSR to procrastinate now!

I remember seeing some ridiculous/hilarious argument on an oxford lgbt facebook group a while ago, is it something similar?

It's not the woman/girl argument (that was equally as entertaining). It's a really strange situation.

Firstly it was just the guy wanting it to be less welfare-focused and more social-focused and the woman wanting to keep the welfare but still have a nice social balance. Then after what I can only assume is a torrent of trolling comments by the guy, he's now being slated as a biphobic, transphobic moron. Which is fair enough judging by the stuff he's said and proposed. He now wants there to be an LGB soc and a separate T soc because 'they have different issues'. There's way more to it than that and some of his comments are crazily extreme. It's a proper fiasco.