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asking her out

basically met this girl at the party.talked to her for quite a bit. i saw her before in a club and told her again i ll her in a club next time. I like the girl. I am meeting her in a club soon. So what should i do, if i have kinda a crush on her. Play it cool at a club, get her number, flirt through texts, ask her for a date to cinema or somewhere and etc.
thanks

Reply 1

Tyler Durden

Get her number. Dance with her in the club a bit. Don't pull her there though. Text her the next day and invite her to drinks not the cinema. That's what I reckon anyway.

Reply 2

lollipopsticks

go 4 the cool approach-casually see wot shes drinkin, buy her a drink and then bump in2 her 2 give her it,talk blah blah blah......be a gentleman the hole nite.take her number at the end of the nite and a wee kiss if ur lucky and then go 4 it with the texts !!tho dnt wait a few days send1 that nite sayin did u get home ok etc etc. and she'll b putty in ur hands!!then if all goes well u shud have a d8 by the next week!!
good luck!!

Reply 3

Mark S

Whatever we say to you know about it, you'll do whatever comes in your head at the time. You think i can plan it, but doesnt usually turn out the way you planned.

Reply 4

LostRiot

If you actually want it to go somewhere don't try to pull her in the club, neither of you will know that the other actually likes you you can end up unsure because they might have been just drunk, not a good start, buy her a drink and stuff but don't go overboard and as english student said ring her or text her the day.
I'm with english student again, don't goto the cinema, well if you do make sure it ends early enough so you go for a drink afterwards, you can't talk at the cinema,

Reply 5

TomX

Get her number. Phone her two days later to arrange a date.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

Yeah...I agree with all of these people, except I am bothered by one thing...

DONT try to be TOO much of a gentleman early on... Of course, being a gentleman is good... But not too much... By this, I mean, you should do the following:

The Dont's
- Don't call her 10 times a week (she might think you're desperate)
- Don't buy her flowers/gifts/chocolates next time you see her (same as above)
- Don't compliment her TOO much on her looks (occasional your dress looks cute is ok)
- Don't seem too interested in her (she might think you're too easy to get)
- Don't offer to pay for her dinner/cab/drinks/movie every time - make her pay as well

The DO's
- Do flirt with her (try teasing her a little bit)
- Do let HER come to you, instead of you going after her every time (don't chase her - let her call you or text you)
- Do show her that you have your own life
- Do plan the date (I mean this both ways - plan the date, and YOU plan the date - as in, carefully plan what you're gonna do, and tell her about it, AND don't let HER plan where to go and what to do - YOU stay in control of the relationship)
- finally, DO HAVE FUN!
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