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Please tell me i'm being stupid

Ok so, i stayed the whole of valentines week with my boyfriend and it was amazing and we got on really well and (god this sounds awful) well we kind of did some "filming". Anyway i got back and i've just found out that the night i left he went on a porn website. It makes me feel a bit hurt. What can i do? He doesn't know I know btw. Thanks

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Do you mean he put the tape on the internet?
Reply 2
No lol thank god. I mean he was looking at porn.
What a bad, bad boy. Sack him.

BTW, the video was half out of focus anyway.
Reply 4
Maybe he has an obsession with recorded sex, after all, the pc can play back sex for hours and hours, you can't. Unfortunate for him im sure.
Well... What's your point? Are you upset cos he watched some porn instead of reviewing your activities?
Reply 6
You're being Stupid

:smile:
you're being stupid. boys looking at porn is entirely normal
Reply 8
Aye, my boyfriend fancies celebrities, think he looks at porn too, and it doesn't bother me because I know he thinks I'm gorgeous and loves me :smile: If you're worried, ask him for some reassurance-fish around for compliments or something!
Reply 9
BlackHawk
You're being Stupid

:smile:


Lol thanks :p:

He wasn't watching video porn it was just pictures but i feel stupid for doing it and hurt. Am i being really crazy? I mean i'd judt left for gods sake. Why wouldn't he watch it unless im really unattractive or whatever?
Maybe he was doing it to keep himself busy? To take his mind off the love of his life leaving?
Reply 11
You're being stupid. Men look at porn, its nothing against you. I enjoyed the video too.
Reply 12
The Mudman
Maybe he was doing it to keep himself busy? To take his mind off the love of his life leaving?


Lol you should be his lawyer :p: . I don't mind him looking at it normally, it's just bloody hell, i'd just left and he decides to look at someone else, when he could of had me
i think i have the only man on the planet who doesnt watch porn (yes i have looked though his pc. no i wasnt doing a porn check). most guys will admit it too. maybe the day u left was a little premature tho.

dont see ne problem with him looking at porn. tbh is it ne different to a girl using a vibrator? i spose the difference is that when a girl uses a vibrator she could be thinking about her bf. a guy watching porn is thinking of the blond with huge knockers.

ps how do u know he was watching it neway?
Anonymous
Lol you should be his lawyer :p: . I don't mind him looking at it normally, it's just bloody hell, i'd just left and he decides to look at someone else, when he could of had me


Don't worry about it. Maybe he would prefer a video of you on your own, if he has a problem with watching himself when he's on the job?
high priestess fnord
i think i have the only man on the planet who doesnt watch porn (yes i have looked though his pc. no i wasnt doing a porn check). most guys will admit it too. maybe the day u left was a little premature tho.

dont see ne problem with him looking at porn. tbh is it ne different to a girl using a vibrator? i spose the difference is that when a girl uses a vibrator she could be thinking about her bf. a guy watching porn is thinking of the blond with huge knockers.

ps how do u know he was watching it neway?


How thoroughly, as it is extremely easy to delete the history/remove cookies or other traces that may indicate porn.
Reply 16
Don't worry about it, boys look at porn regardless of being in a relationship or not :smile:
How do you know he looked at porn?
Reply 18
lil_sweetie
How do you know he looked at porn?


Because there was a big smear on the screen?
Reply 19
Anonymous
Why wouldn't he watch it unless im really unattractive or whatever?
Why wouldn't he watch what? The video you 2 just made? Probably because the idea of cracking off whilst watching himself fornicate isn't that appealing.