not wearing headscarf anymore

yup wahabbis. they always like lecturing me but hate is part of no religeon

are you a Shia

lol. cool. i know im weird that way.

i combine craziness from science to desgining uber cool stuff.

erm they let me have guy friends over as they trust me, just because you are friends with guys doesnt mean your doing something wrong? and its not awkward, only when my mum comes in and embarasses me!

naah not bridal looks,but what to wear to weddings. my motto is awlays one scarf is never enough! and all jewellry can be worn on your head! somehow with tweaking

Haha science students ftw

And as long as they're nice clothes that's cool

hey, im guessing your a muslim
i used to be like wary one of girls who wore hijab or jilbab
this song changed my view

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZ6yKsuuMLo


and even by the waterloo rd storyline...how'd she end up
she became pregnant

Lol at u, this is the problem with the 21st century. Everybody demands instant gratification. We want everything and we want it now. Instant everything. Instant gains, instant messages, email, fax, internet. Instant food, the faster the better. Instant education, job, wealth. Instant medical service, diagnosis, and an instant cure. Instant family. Instant travel. Instant information. Instant banking. Right or wrong, good or bad, we want it now. Do you think caveman had access to steroids? No they didnt, they had to hunt for their food. Nobody lights a fire these days. People don't even light ovens anymore. It takes just too long to heat up a meal. It takes just too much patience. I'm hungry now, not 40 minutes from now. That's why God gave us microwave ovens. Just pop the food in and whrrr –BEEP- out it comes, nicely warmed for immediate consumption. That's not how I view happiness. Patience is a virtue of the great and few possess it. All good things comes to those who wait when it comes down to exercising patience.

Hahahaha. Lol. Are you being serious??
And why do you need a code to get into your mosque

x

yup wahabbis. they always like lecturing me but hate is part of no religeon

You will be punished for your blind arrogance friend.

i currently wear a headscarf... however, I do not want to anymore as I do not feel it represents who i am any more.I am not religeous anymore and do not want to be attached to any religion.

so I want to stop wearing it, however, bit worried about reaction from family. as I know they`ll be like "its the right thing, you`ve always worn it"
however, I dont feel confident with it anymore- its not me, and now am old enough to know what I truly want, its not what I want.

im thinking I should just keep it on till september (start uni) then take it off, my parents wont be there so I wont have to explain to them? although they`d then realise and ask,why?

n I guess I would feel slightly guilty too. but its wrong to do something just because you feel you have to..

basically its a conversation am going to have to have...

so what should i do?

any suggestions would be appreciated

786 is the abjad count of the phrase "besmellahe rrahmaane rrahim"

Can't believe both of you are Muslims and didn't know.

Are u the correct sunni which celebrate milaad ..(prophets s.a.w birthday) ?

UGH Saudi are the worst type of hypocrite, they're best buds with all the moronic leaders of the West and as a result are aiding the killing of their own. Complete prats.

Sorry, rant over.

Do you still believe in Islam as the truth? if yes, then what do you think of the countless clear cut verses regarding covering the head? (e.g. Quran 24:31).

The reason we are here is because we are being tested by Allah, I don't know what struggles you've gone through because of the hijab, but just remember that we are here to please Allah and none else. This life is short, but the hereafter is eternal and following God's guideline is the ultimate success. Do you have Muslim girl friends? If not, hang around with some, you'll be surprised by how much Muslims can relate to each other and enjoy each other's company.

Indeed.
And so are the West then. If they are so dangerous to the planet, then stop allying with them...this is what I really don't get. It seems love for oil takes over anything. Sort that greed out first and then complain about Muslims not doing anything about extremism.

I was walking with a friend through Whitechapel and we got stopped on a street by this random guy who told me, "Tell the sister she is not wearing proper hijab," because she was wearing a headscarf and trousers which is wrong apparently. I wasn't sure whether to tell him it was none of his damn business what she wore, or to ask him why he was speaking to me instead of her, as if i was in charge of her or something. I ended up going with the second one, because I felt that assumption was even more outrageous than the comment about her attire.

No I'm a jew. And I'd be a lot more welcome at some of these isocs than a shia.

You're not wierd...

Sure, my mum would trust me with a million and one girls in my room, but the point is, if you can't tell them the reason behind it is due your beliefs, then you're not telling them the truth, so they'll be left confused= another problem!

cool mottos.. I'm not gunna battle with you on hijabs haha, you win!

Omg this just hit me " shes putting down her hijab like an artist puts down his brush, like a writer puts down his pen..." lol don't ask

i dont watch waterloo road - are you saying the hijab doubles as a contraceptive device?

People always go about this the wrong way.

Put your foot down and make it absolutely clear that you don't want this and your not living their lives.

Worst case scenario is you'll get disowned.

I'm still confused as to why all of sudden you want to take your headscarf off?you say you're not religious anymore but still a Muslim?

A couple of my close friends stopped wearing the hijab before uni. One is from a pretty strict background but her parents were still accepting. It might cause a bit of grief, but if your parents love you they will respect your decision.

The other took advantage of a family scandal so at that point the family had bigger issues to worry about...maybe you could pay a sibling to get a picture taken eating a hog roast while swigging vodka?? Then the headscarf wont seem like such a big deal! :P

I knew I just like to pretend I don't

You don't believe me?? I'm a muslim why would i lie.

Anyway true story, our mosque is near the city centre, so we make sure the doors are always kept locked, cos our ustad is an old man who literally lives there can't defend the Mosque against the chav's.

Plus, every muslim knows the codes gonna be 786, except from the Gorai of course. haha

786 is the abjad count of the phrase "besmellahe rrahmaane rrahim"

Can't believe both of you are Muslims and didn't know.

No it say dress modestly and cover your breasts. And presumably down below too. The hijaab is from the Hadith and Muslims who follow these like to try and be how the prophet (and his wives if you are female) were. It's also not obligatory for men to have a beard from the Qur'an either.

Read the wikipedia article if you'd like:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hijab

And you can read the verses translated in English on quran.com if you have any doubts.