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needing space

I'm one of those people who never says they "need space"... I guess this is also because I can NEVER stay mad at someone I love. ever. like... not even for 10 minutes. which means that I always want to make something better and heal the situation immediately... i can't stand knowing someone is mad at me or upset. unfortunately, literally all my mates are the opposite. they can ALL hold a grudge, and blow someone off that they're mad at. It just makes things really difficult. How can I make things better...should I learn to wait, or should they be more understanding? Also, is it bad that I can't stay mad at someone?
Hiya I'm the same, I've never said to somebody I need space as I just can't be mean to people really or if I am I immediately go say sorry for being mean :confused: I don't think its a bad thing although I'm trying to be bit more brave and stand up for myself more. I just hate being mean as I hate people being mean and having grudges against me:p:
Reply 2
Monkey_Maiden
Hiya I'm the same, I've never said to somebody I need space as I just can't be mean to people really or if I am I immediately go say sorry for being mean :confused: I don't think its a bad thing although I'm trying to be bit more brave and stand up for myself more. I just hate being mean as I hate people being mean and having grudges against me:p:

yeah... i'd rather apologise (even if i didnt do much of anything) than risk someone being angry or hurt.
Same, Sorry is probably my most widely used word:rolleyes:
Just shows how lovely we are
Reply 4
Monkey_Maiden
Same, Sorry is probably my most widely used word:rolleyes:
Just shows how lovely we are

:shakehand we are lovely.:rolleyes: