I know exactly what you mean again im anything between an 8-12 - dress sizes are crap they should make sizes 9+11 already, im untoned and have huuge thighs, like a rugby player!!! I love pasta and im a pescatarian so red meats out the window (*its a taste thing for me!), and also i hate going to the gym on my own, its also too expensive when youre a student. My boyfriend hates the gym, he went once and now makes excuses everytime - hes perfect weight - thin but not scrawny, so he doesnt have to go! Try and appease him with things he likes, i had to offer to watch wrestlign for mine - god help me!
Exercise is the best way! Why dont you invest in an exercise dvd, i know some of them are rubbish, but they are hilarious! Im currently loving pump it up - it makes me cringe so much (call on me dance!) but you feel it working and it helps with your confidence as i actually cant dance, im hopeless, i normally just shake my hips and thats me! Its easy enough to do in your own room and you can smack it on whenever you feel low!
Team sports are also a great way, esp at uni/college as its free and you can meet new people! Walking is good if you dont do that already, its free and you can get a bunch of you to walk to the shops for shopping, saving moneys of taxi's!
Exercise classes are brill too! Its great that youre doing dancing, its so good for you and fun posing like fools! Id deffo reccommend kick-boxing its fantastic i tried it for 2 months twice a week and toned up so quickly - like after a few weeks, but i couldnt keep it up as i had to work on those days to earn money!
Good luck honey! Hope it all works out okay x - woah this is a long post!