Opinions please!

I'll try to be to the point.
I'm seeing somebody (quite frequently) and i think they like me, and i think i like them.

Emphasis here on the word 'think'.
When i'm with them, im convinced theyre amazing and i wana be with them.
When theyre not around, i strongly doubt my own feelings, and i cant remember what i thought was so special about them - kinda cant conjure up the same feelings.

IS this normal? or am i totally confused and best to leave it alone or take a step away.
I feel we're becoming very close now, and passing the point where going back on what is said/happens becomes difficult and hurtful.

Any opinions would be appreciated - i'm not exactly clued up here and finding it hard to understand my feelings. Waaaaaaay out of my depth! :confused:

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

HAHA my skills at writing offputting threads are displayed.
30 minutes and only one view! :p:

Reply 2

Ceri327

i doubt highly your the first person to ever feel this way about someone, although i never have i usually like them the same when im not around them but anyhow, just go for it you obviously like the person maybe your just reluctant to let yourself like them because you might get hurt, i always think if we thought bout everything like if i do this, this might happen we'd just stand still all our lifes

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

maybe your just reluctant to let yourself like them because you might get hurt

My last relationship went BAD
But could that really explain all of my confusions away?

Reply 4

XavierTroy

Sounds like you may be trying to highlight specific reasons why you feel this way about the person but the important thing is it sounds like you are having a good time together. If that is true then I don't think you need to be so deep about the issue. Don't over complicate things :biggrin:

Reply 5

lil_sweetie

When you say you're saying them frequently, what do you mean? Like at school, or as family friends or what? Spend more time with her - you'll soon tell whether she likes you, girls often drop subtle hints. And even if she doesn't, you'll have a great friendship which is always a good start to a relationship. It could still happen.

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

And even if she doesn't, you'll have a great friendship which is always a good start to a relationship. It could still happen.

I think people might be missing the point.
They like me, and im quite sure of it.
But i think this is definitely leading onto something, and half of me wants it, and the other half cant help but think its wrong.
So which half is right?

Reply 7

lil_sweetie

The half of you that wants it - go with these instincts - you don't know until you go for it.

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