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Feeling terrible
Earlier, I was over in a friend's room, working. I had a break from work, and sat down at his desk. i turned the screen on, and saw an unread msn window. Without thinking I clicked on it to bring the window up. I didnt read it. He saw what I was doing, and said 'Do you mind!?'. At first I didnt know what he meant so i said, 'what?'. 'Reading my msn messages!' he replied. I said then - 'oh, i'm so sorry!' and closed it. My other friend was there, and they had been discussing maths while i had a break, so they went back to it and I went back to work. The evening continued as if nothing had happened.
But I feel awful! I would do that on my boyfriend's computer, and probably have done it on other friends' computers, and they have had no problem with it. But I realise its a really rude thing to do and I feel terrible. Absolutely appalled with myself.
I think i'll write a note to apologise, and put it in his pigeonhole. i want him to realise that i know it was wrong and i feel really bad. I just hope it doesnt hurt our friendship, cos we are quite close.
Anyway, sorry for the long post. Just needed to write it down.
But I feel awful! I would do that on my boyfriend's computer, and probably have done it on other friends' computers, and they have had no problem with it. But I realise its a really rude thing to do and I feel terrible. Absolutely appalled with myself.
I think i'll write a note to apologise, and put it in his pigeonhole. i want him to realise that i know it was wrong and i feel really bad. I just hope it doesnt hurt our friendship, cos we are quite close.
Anyway, sorry for the long post. Just needed to write it down.
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Thanks.
Any opinions? Do you think writing a note is the best thng to do?
Any opinions? Do you think writing a note is the best thng to do?
I think a note might be a little OTT. Just say sorry again tomorrow at a suitable moment, explain you weren't really thinking and that you didn't read anything. I am sure it'll be fine!
Markus Angelsdaughter
werll i trhinjk that wrutung a note cold be ok, but talking facebto face might be good too.
i probably will, but i thought a note would be a good way to start it off and let him know how sorry i am.
he is a guy with strong opinions and and a need for privacy in some matters. i really shouldn't have done it.
Is it terribly wrong for me to say... if only the worries in my life were limited to having accidently clicking upon an MSN conversation window? 
scarlet ibis
i probably will, but i thought a note would be a good way to start it off and let him know how sorry i am.
he is a guy with strong opinions and and a need for privacy in some matters. i really shouldn't have done it.
he is a guy with strong opinions and and a need for privacy in some matters. i really shouldn't have done it.
you do it to your boyfriend as well? do you read his text messages as well?
minimo
I think Markus is drunk again.
Don't worry Amy, I'm sure everything will be fine...no-one could ever not like you m'dear
Don't worry Amy, I'm sure everything will be fine...no-one could ever not like you m'dear
aww thanks *hugs*
maybe a note is too much, but knowing him, it feels appropriate. i've sent him notes before. The last one was to say thank you for being such a good freind and he still has it pinned in his noticeboard!
scarlet ibis
i probably will, but i thought a note would be a good way to start it off and let him know how sorry i am.
he is a guy with strong opinions and and a need for privacy in some matters. i really shouldn't have done it.
he is a guy with strong opinions and and a need for privacy in some matters. i really shouldn't have done it.
gebt fein acht ok. when you lovea boy or a grl its hard to not do thingds that you think are bad, dont oerry about it. just dont worry
President_Ben
Is it terribly wrong for me to say... if only the worries in my life were limited to having accidently clicking upon an MSN conversation window?
hmm, its not the act itself but the implications. it wasnt entirely accidental, although i wasnt really thinking, and i just hioe it wont affect our friendship
El Scotto
you do it to your boyfriend as well? do you read his text messages as well?
you do it to your boyfriend as well? do you read his text messages as well?
he does it to me too. he doesnt have a problem with it and nor do i. we have nothing to hide form each other. its a different matter with friends tho
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