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Cheating Girlfriends

Basically me and my Ex girlfriend had been going out for 2 years, We broke up last september but were back together in october. when we broke up she made loads of profiles on things like myspace, faceparty etc. i already had a Myspace account but knowing how much of a temptation it is i deleted my account. She carried on using her accounts and changed nothing on them e.g. about her not being single anymore! now as a mature person i couldnt give a **** about this, But now ive recently found out she cheated on me on a nite out with her m8s! i dont understand why she would do something like that why waste 2 years of a relationship anyway that got me thinking do you think she has still been using those internet profiles acounts to meet lads on? she never let me see who she was talking to on msn. If she had nothing to hide about it why wouldnt she jus let me see who she was talking to. just wundering if the last year or so has been a complete waste of time?

Reply 1

username47781

20

Just ignore her now she's history in your life, one day what goes around will come around on her, just let her fall.

Reply 2

xavier2k3

1

Carl1982

Just ignore her now she's history in your life, one day what goes around will come around on her, just let her fall.

well said that man.

regards
--marty

Reply 3

BirchyGreen

I feel your pain dude something similar happened to me not long ago, again in a two year relationship. I know its hard to accept but she is obviously not worth it, and if she is willing to do this to you after two years then there is obviously no long term future. Try and go out and have fun with your friends, forget women for a while and just enjoy being single. I wont lie, its hard at first, real hard, but in my experience, after a month or so you will be wondering why it ever upset you in the first place.

There are so many nice girls out there who arent sluts who are just waiting for the right, kind, sensitive guy to come along. Maybe that guy is you? :smile:

Reply 4

Né Stig

15

Laugh at her whilst you'll be successfully fulfilling your career.
I had a G/F for nearly 6 years. I feel as though its a complete waste of time what I went through. I could have done so much etc etc etc, but that will just anger you even more.

Best way is to concentrate on your own life and fulfill your own ambitions. Get on with your life, and you may end up meeting her again 2 years down the line. You'll have done so much by then (hopefully gone upwards), and she'll probably be mature enough to realize she *****ed up. Thats when you can just be polite and walk away.

Can't tell you how many times thats happened to me. :smile:

Its very satisfying.

Reply 5

Né Stig

15

Laugh at her whilst you'll be successfully fulfilling your career.
I had a G/F for nearly 6 years. I feel as though its a complete waste of time what I went through. I could have done so much etc etc etc, but that will just anger you even more.

Best way is to concentrate on your own life and fulfill your own ambitions. Get on with your life, and you may end up meeting her again 2 years down the line. You'll have done so much by then (hopefully gone upwards), and she'll probably be mature enough to realize she *****ed up. Thats when you can just be polite and walk away.

Can't tell you how many times thats happened to me. :smile:

Its very satisfying.

Reply 6

username47781

20

xavier2k3

well said that man.

regards
--marty

Cheers man, one thing for cheats is they will never ever be happy in life, i've had it happen to me there's a couple ex's of mine who's lives are completely ruined.

Reply 7

pink_lucie

14

is it a proper sleeping with someone else cheating? or a kiss etc cheating?

cos either way it doesnt matter as your not together anymore

Reply 8

Tim Street

at the start its like, Why do people tell you they love you, get deeply involved with you; love letters, opera, meals, doin stuff with the family.. then go to a party and cheat on you. I wish there was an explanation. Its the fact that uve been taken for a complete ****ing mug.

Then u realise.....not all girls are like that. One day mate you will meet a girl that loves you entirely for what you are and is completely devoted to you. You will go through countless numbers of painful relationships until you meet this girl...but when you do, its worth it. This girl is THE ONE. you feel you know everything there is to know about their world...and you open your life up to them, theres never any secrets....they dont care about other guys apart from you, cheating on you doesnt even come into the equation.

for me, I dont give a ***** if its a lovebite or a shag, its cheating, dump the bitch.

Reply 9

Scarlett_Jewel

1

Why do they do all that then cheat on a one off? I can answer that one. It's the impulse of the moment. Maybe missing feeling desired in that instant, short term heat. Even 'because I wanted to see if I could'

I'm not saying cheating is ever justified but there are always reasons, as unempathetic one can be with them.

Reply 10

hugatree

11

I'm confused - did she cheat on you while you were back together on in that month you broke up?

Reply 11

pumpkin7

13

sounds like my boyfriend.. he won't let me near his computer with a barge pole. i would like to know what he is hiding.

though i know he does talk to girls, i know he isn't on myspace or faceparty.. and he doesn't go out ..like..ever soo.. meh.

i don't know why girls feel the need to cheat. if they can't hack a serious, commited relationship, then they shouldn't be in one.

sorry mate, that you seem to have been going out with one of the bad uns..

Reply 12

lazza

15

sadly i found out the hard way that forgetting to change your status [well i didn't know we were going out] can piss a boy off.

Reply 13

JoJo123

1

maybe yhou should ask yourself WHY she did it? maybe she did feel unwanted and lonely - maybe she just missed the attention - maybe it was somethign you did but unless you ask you wont know

Reply 14

charco

Study Forum Helper

18

People change and in spite of that a relationship is never a waste of time - sure you feel hurt and it all seems pointless but it's just another facet to a constantly changing kaleidoscope of life.
You gain a fantastic amount of experience from both good and bad relationships, and often a bad relationship is just a good one that doesn't work anymore 'cos one of the pair has changed the way they feel.
At the end of the day two people are together because they want to be. Once one of them doesn't 'feel' it anymore it's time to duck out.
All good advice above - get on with your life - try not to remember the past in the short term as that will lead to resentment, leave the memories for a time when you can smile at the thought of it.
Time heals all wounds (almost)

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