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lol i don't speak to her anymore, she doesn't speak to me, not seen her since last april lol


i really would like a girlfriend - but never really found anyone - perhaps because i don't really go out lookin, only place i go to is the Bulls head near me with some mates who also don't really go out that much lol but even if girls were there (its full of old men and women) i still couldn't just speak to them - it'd be far too weird




i imagine how i would feel if a complete stranger came up to me and started speaking, i'd be quite worried lol
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(Original post by Sami_ThePeelite)
lol i don't speak to her anymore, she doesn't speak to me, not seen her since last april lol


i really would like a girlfriend - but never really found anyone - perhaps because i don't really go out lookin, only place i go to is the Bulls head near me with some mates who also don't really go out that much lol but even if girls were there (its full of old men and women) i still couldn't just speak to them - it'd be far too weird




i imagine how i would feel if a complete stranger came up to me and started speaking, i'd be quite worried lol
it would be wierd if that someone started peaking as if they knew you as a friend. But, how do you think relationships start?

the more risky/dominant person will strike an opening for a conversation and then things will start. so inevitably, at some point, a stranger will have to speak to you, unless you always get friends to brief both parties, which kinda sucks.
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(Original post by Sami_ThePeelite)
lol i don't speak to her anymore, she doesn't speak to me, not seen her since last april lol

i really would like a girlfriend - but never really found anyone - perhaps because i don't really go out lookin, only place i go to is the Bulls head near me with some mates who also don't really go out that much lol but even if girls were there (its full of old men and women) i still couldn't just speak to them - it'd be far too weird

i imagine how i would feel if a complete stranger came up to me and started speaking, i'd be quite worried lol
well to be quite honest it seems you've left it too long with the other girl, you've got to do some real hard work to get that potential relationship back on track, but if your willing to put the effort in i mean why not? go for it. But its not too late to get out there and meet new girls. Go to neutral places like pubs clubs and bars where there is a lot of ppl in your situation (single and looking ). Even if your shy little by little force yourself to speak to girls, even if your not interested in them as girlfriend material but more mate material, it may not produce instant results but it will sure boost your confidence to speak to girls and get out there.
If you do see someone you like...be a man...have the guts to speak to her because at the end of the day what the worse that could happen "she could say i'm not interested" and hey you move on! Just rmeber that your young and theres so many people out there suited to you itsd just their not going to come looking for u you've got to go looking for them!
Lifes an oyster man its yours for the taking!
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Love unconditionally, don't hold too tight because like grains of sand relationships needs gentleness. If you clasp your hand too hard, the sand seeps through...

(http://www.teenadviceonline.org)
And if your clasp is not felt, the sand disintegrates.
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You can't possibly get it right, can you...
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You can't possibly get it right, can you...
It's a happy medium...practice makes perfect
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