The Student Room Group
Reply 1
you're a girl, right?
Reply 2
That you care and you'll be there whenever they need a chat? I dunno, works for me.
Reply 3
Dekota
you're a girl, right?


Nope, im a guy.
And a very 'i dont what the f*** im doing' guy.
Reply 4
It really depends on the context, surely?
Reply 5
Why is saying 'i love you' intimidating?
Reply 6
Ok context
I've known them a few months, seen them on and off and we've become close in a generally friendly way that borders on the physical way.
With that in mind, i know they like me, but i want to 'make a move' as it were.
But despite how certain i am, its way too early to come on so heavily, so how do i approach this?
Reply 7
Anonymous
Ok context
I've known them a few months, seen them on and off and we've become close in a generally friendly way that borders on the physical way.
With that in mind, i know they like me, but i want to 'make a move' as it were.
But despite how certain i am, its way too early to come on so heavily, so how do i approach this?

Come on more lightly then, maybe with a hint that you are someone what more heavy, but not so much so as to be a deterrent. Play it so you can go in further and reverse.
Reply 8
Play it so you can go in further and reverse.


Umm meaning?
My guess being that i should try being a bit more forward, then each time after give it room to breathe before trying again.
To judge the situation properly, right?
Reply 9
Anonymous
Umm meaning?
My guess being that i should try being a bit more forward, then each time after give it room to breathe before trying again.
To judge the situation properly, right?

My meaning is that if the reaction is that she is taken back, reel it in a bit, if she takes to it go for it more. You need to create tension though, so don't come on open. Play games with her by getting interested and the randomly pulling back, it will make her more attracted to you.
Dekota
Why is saying 'i love you' intimidating?


Because you might not.
Because they might not.
Reply 11
Why do you have to say anything at all?

Just get drunk together and pull ( or more :wink: ).
Then the next day text her and say how much you enjoyed it and that you'd like to see her again soon. This is what's known as the 'soft start' aproach to relationships and it avoids you having to say anything awkward.
Just say:


Woo wee baby I declare you sure look fine
Woo wee baby I declare you sure look fine
A girl like you has made a many man change his mind

Baby when you walk you know you shake like a willow tree
Baby when you walk you know you shake like a willow tree
A girl like you would just love to make a fool of me

Let me love you baby
Let me love you baby
Let me love you little darlin'
Let me love you baby
Let me love you darlin' 'til your good love drives me crazy

Let me love you baby
Let me love you baby
Let me love you little darlin'
Let me love you baby
Let me love you darlin' 'til your good love drives me crazy
Pretty Boy
you really DON'T wanna say thtat
:rolleyes:
Maybe thats where l go wrong :biggrin: