Crossdressing help?

Well, you know my thoughts and suggestions on this front. I'm just here to show support.

People don't do anything for no reason - they do it because they want to.

You must be transgender then?

There must be a reason why you want to cross-dress. People don't just cross-dress for no reason.

Can you people not realise that you shouldn't be asking her why? She has hinted and even stated that she doesn't really want questions asked and you should respect this!

I am sorry I can't give you any direct help though OP as I don't really have any experience on the matter and my fashion sense is awful to begin with any way, although the suggestions I have seen seem extremely helpful and I hope that you achieve the desired look you wish to go for!

In terms of suggestions, although they may seem amateurish, I would suggest baseball caps and long baggy t-shirts and hoodies. This way they should hang off your curves and hide your hips.
Eye brows are also an often defining feature between males and females so perhaps you could get a makeup pencil and draw them to look a bit fuller? Sorry I can't really be anymore help though!

I get read as a male all the time maybe I can help

Erm...have you thought about trying straight leg male jeans (primark does short length), a short haircut (mine is short spikes), and a guy's hoody? Also, according to my mum, high top trainers on the outside of jeans apparently looks male, though if you've got really little feet that might not work. If you can't afford a binder you can wear 2 sports bras - one backwards one forwards - and it works pretty well, totally hides my 34DD boobs. Maybe hit the gym so you can develop a bit of muscle definition, I've only been going to the gym for 4 weeks but already my biceps are way bigger. Lift heavy for small number of reps and get lots of protein in your diet. Things like layering your clothes, for example a baggy band tee then a shirt on top can help to hide boobs and hips.

Hope this helps.

Personally I would stay away from make-up. It's fine to experiment, of course, but in my experience people are very good at discerning when someone doesn't quite look right, and this will be exacerbated if they see make-up on the face of someone they believe to be male. Just an opinion though

Other than that, the advice on this thread seems good. Have you thought about lifting weights? It may tone down some of your curves and give you a stronger figure, whilst still looking good if you decide to remain female (besides feeling great). Otherwise, loose clothes are your friend. Good luck with it.

I'd like for you to take a hint, please, and stop asking questions when I've clearly been avoiding a direct answer. My reasons are irrelevant and will clutter this thread, not to mention that wanting to pass for male might not immediately make me male. Why should it?

So you are transgender. Particularly looking at parts of your other posts, such as 'I'm aware I'll pass for a pre-teen boy at best, but I'm hoping people will get the message'. Why can't you just admit it?

Anyway, as for clothes - long sleeved shirt would do well, possibly with a jacket. Baggy trousers. Short hair and maybe build your upper body a bit more (so it takes away from the wide hips).

So I have been told! I just love my trilby. I think the straight trousers are a good idea, but again, five foot two. I'd be swamped by male gear and female gear is always tailored to show off the hips to differentiate from male suits. Thanks for the help!

Could you look at boys' clothes? They may be more likely to fit you. Idk how nice the stuff can be but there must be something out there.

I didn't specify why I want to crossdress for a reason, why are people so nosy and unhelpful?

So you are transgender. Particularly looking at parts of your other posts, such as 'I'm aware I'll pass for a pre-teen boy at best, but I'm hoping people will get the message'. Why can't you just admit it?

Anyway, as for clothes - long sleeved shirt would do well, possibly with a jacket. Baggy trousers. Short hair and maybe build your upper body a bit more (so it takes away from the wide hips).

So you are transgender. Particularly looking at parts of your other posts, such as 'I'm aware I'll pass for a pre-teen boy at best, but I'm hoping people will get the message'. Why can't you just admit it?

Because it's something that people don't "class" as normal and don't understand.

A lot of the time I find myself dressing in a more masculine way because that's how I feel most comfortable. Even though I do have barely no chest and have had a "straight up and down" figure all my life, my face is VERY feminine (large eyes, prominent eyebrows, full lips, long eyelashes), something I'm not too fond of. But instead of worrying about it, I've just acccepted that there's not much I can do about it (bar surgery) and that's that. It's pointless worrying about something that you can't change, though I realise that is a lot easier said than done.

I've recently stated that I want to be called by my middle name rather than my first - it suits me, my look, my character and personality much more, it's a name that was fairly popular with girls in the era that I cannot with that most, and I just prefer it to my birth name. Although my middle name is unisex (Lee), it is mainly seen on males and as a result I've had many people asking me if I'm transgender. I'm not. I was born as a girl and do feel like a girl, I just like dressing more manly. And there's nothing wrong with that. I don't see the need to label myself, I don't have a sexuality and my gender is a somewhat difficult concept to explain, so "androgynous" is probably the word that describes how I feel most accurately.

What I have learnt is that although some people are completely fine with you being whoever you want to be (I have had some immense support from peers over the internet), there will always be some who find it hard to get to grips with it. As long as you're happy, comfortable and safe, that's all that matters in the long run.

(I have also realised that this post doesn't actually the question about clothes, sorry about that)

So you are transgender. Particularly looking at parts of your other posts, such as 'I'm aware I'll pass for a pre-teen boy at best, but I'm hoping people will get the message'. Why can't you just admit it?