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what does this mean?

bhi,

right where do i start.ok...i go to a sports club every thursday, been going since the summer. Met this girl there lets call her "s" as soon as i saw here,i thought "hmm nice:biggrin: " so anyway she made an effort to talk to me on the first day that i flirts went which was nice of her.

Over the next few weeks we got chatting and I thought we both flirted because she would stick her tongue out at me in a joking way, or smile, or tread on my toes when she was walking past me or she would take the piss outta me..i thought she was being flirty, but I think shes like that naturally cause ive seen incidences where shes hit another guy on the arm.

I asked for her number about 2 months ago, and weve been texting a bit. I say a bit because se takes AGES to reply..is that a girl trait?

About a week ago I got a text from her in the evening saying “if I were a fish, would you eat me?:tongue: that’s what it said in the text, so I text back saying are you text the right person? And she said yes.. so I said “I would, depends what kinda fish you were”

She relied with a tasty fish”

So what I am asking is how would you people read this as? If you were in my shoes?

Thanks for your views
I think its quite clear she fancies you.



Or she's playing games :biggrin:
yer hel ye she fancies u, go for it! get some lovin goin lol
Or she's mentally unstable
Reply 4
Fancies you but fancies other people too.
Reply 5
thanks for your quick reply..:smile:

ill give you another example..she went to a uni open day recently..i was up in scotland.. and i was texting her during the day.. and sh said" cold though*shivers*"

so i text back saying"*hugs"

she text back saying "mm, still cold:tongue:"

i didnt think she was giving me the come on signals is she?

i did a bit a diggin aswell and i asked her when we were txting.."what do you think of me?" i was subtle about it..

she replied " your a decent guy, u care, ur giving" so i dont think she was givg much away there, that lead me to believe she cant like me THAT much..

i thnk shes quit reserved when it comes to guys..shes not the "brash" type of girl if you know what i mean?

i just want to get peopls views before i pluck up thecourage to ask her out and get rejected cause ive misread the signals
Reply 6
u seem to have contradicted yourself

u said she was flirting/playing around with several guys, and then you go on to say she's quite reserved...how well do you know her?
Reply 7
i think "friendly" is a better term to describe it. she talks to most people, but from what ive found out from her mate is that when it comes to guys shes quite reserved. she has low esteem.

i probabaly sound like im contradicting because the girl "s" is occupying my brain...and my "man brain" cant cope..:rolleyes:
Reply 8
Go for it... if you don't see her that often, what have you got to lose?

Besides, if you don't ask her, you'll never get her out of your head.