boyfriend beat her up...

It's her own fault for being with him; she loves someone like that. That, to me, is immoral, also. It's not only the fault of such blokes, but such stupid women as your friend who get (and stay) with them in the first place.

Wait until you're in that situation - it's not as easy to walk away as everyone thinks.

I've got a friend and she asked me to call her today. when i did she said her boyfriend had beat her in the head. she told me this wasn't the first time and she wasn't sure what to do. she's not sure whether to leave him or not because she does love him dearly and it's only happened like three times. that's what she told me, and she's not sure whether to tell her parents about it. she's over at her friends now i think, and hopefully i told her they'd put her up for a few days until she feels better. what should she do? should she go back to him or leave and why do guys beat up the people they say they love? i mean come on! i'm so mad and upset and i feel helpless coz i can't help her

My ex was violent. She has to leave him. These men NEVER change.

It's her own fault for being with him; she loves someone like that. That, to me, is immoral, also. It's not only the fault of such blokes, but such stupid women as your friend who get (and stay) with them in the first place. I have no sympathy whatsoever.

It's her own fault for being with him; she loves someone like that. That, to me, is immoral, also. It's not only the fault of such blokes, but such stupid women as your friend who get (and stay) with them in the first place. I have no sympathy whatsoever.

There is no only with violence....it happens its over. there is no after or second chances.

Well what if he was drunk those other times and he's apologised? doesn't mean she's pathetic...honestly some people! i told her to tell her parents.she says she'll talk to her friends as they're older and she'll see what they have to say. she doesn't want to tell them because they're freak and be stressed over nothing. i think she's going to leave him though,so that's good. i hope she does. she's fed up as well. and hopefully he'll leave her alone.

Well what if he was drunk those other times and he's apologised? doesn't mean she's pathetic...honestly some people! i told her to tell her parents.she says she'll talk to her friends as they're older and she'll see what they have to say. she doesn't want to tell them because they're freak and be stressed over nothing. i think she's going to leave him though,so that's good. i hope she does. she's fed up as well. and hopefully he'll leave her alone.

You're an ignorant idiot